How can I get my ex girl friend back. Do any females have any good answers besides moving on?

She broke up with me because of my neglect towards her. It wasn't on purpose. I didn't even realize the stupid mistakes I was making until she was gone. Since then I apologizes sincerely and we still keep in touch once awhile through e-male and text. I have done alot of introspection and realize where I went wrong. What else can I do on my part to show her I still have strong feeling for her.How can I get my ex girl friend back. Do any females have any good answers besides moving on?
let her go dude plenty of fish in the sea!!!!How can I get my ex girl friend back. Do any females have any good answers besides moving on?
Keep working on yourself. If she sees that you are changing she will take you back if she hasn't moved on.
We are all married here. Singles and dating might better suit you. The only bubble over my head is a question.





';Why did it take a break up to make you see what you now miss in her';


Own up in person with her.
All you can do is tell her how you feel. It's up to her to decide if she wants to get back with you.
It is not too little, too late. have you told her this? if not then tell her. Tell her the mistakes you made will not be repeated. Don't apologize anymore. Show her how sorry you are in your actions.





Good luck to you both. I hope it works out for you.
Keep on talking to her at least once every day. If nothing else, talk about the weather. Keep her engaged in good humour. A day will come when she will relent.
if she's not already in a new r/ship then pursuing her to the fullest is the best bet to win her back..


write letters stating how you feel and what you regret, the acknowledge you will not do as you did before..


once you get her tho, you must work to maintain the r/ship and not let it get to this again
You could try sitting down and writing her a heartfelt letter describing your introspection and realizations, and letting her know that you would like to try again and how things will be different this time. I really think that's the only thing I would respond to... if you were able to really convince me of some deeper changes.





Now, I have to add that my first reaction was that you would be best to just move on and learn from your mistakes, but you wanted something besides that...
You have a lot of work to do, and if she has moved on to another lover, then you are running up hill, and may end up tumbling back down the hill like Jack with Jill standing at the top of the hill laughing at you. So if you are o.k. with that, you are going to have to go out full force to win her heart back. The problem is that most women tend to hang in there for a very long time past the time that they've stopped being happy. They tend to try everything that they know how to do, to get you to wake up and smell the coffee. They hint, they plead, they cry, they get mad, they wine, they nag, they lose their cool completely, they wait on you hand and foot, cook your favorite meals, wash your clothes, give you whatever you want in bed, etc, etc, etc. Then when they have exhausted every avenue that they can possible travel on to get your love and attention, they GIVE UP!


It will be extremely hard to get her trust back When a woman's heart has finally hardened enough to be able to walk away, and she has cried every tear that she possibly can, and has given up and left, most times women will not want to go through that hell again.


That is why you will have to start all over again from the beginning if you want her back. Mere words won't get it this time. You need to send her flowers, lots of them, send her favorite candy, or gifts. Keep it up, write and send love letters, expressing what a fool you were, write poetry (it doesn't have to be good, she will love the effort). You have to convince her heart that you will not ever break it again, and that you will never forget how special she is. You need to convince her that you can't live w/o her, that you can't sleep or eat w/p her. Offer to go to couples counseling, whatever she wants. Offer to take her on a special trip, somewhere that she wants to go. Make it all about her, grovel, be sweet, be loving, and caring. Most of all, LISTEN to her, her needs, her wants, and her feelings. Share yourself (your heart, your feelings) with her.


You will have to be willing to go the distance to get her back, and to take whatever she dishes out for awhile. She will be testing you to see how sincere you are. Be vulnerable, and don't give up w/o a fight. Good luck and best wishes for a happy future.
First of all, make sure that you really, really want her back? Otherwise, let her go, don't hurt her twice.





Then, explain all mistakes and your reasons to her and hope she would get you back. People can make mistakes, twice the most in my view. LOL.