I messed up and cheated on my boyfriend just one time. He was my first and I want to marry him. I think I just wanted to know what it was like to be with another man but I regret it.
My boyfriend won't answer my calls or text messages! It has been about 2 weeks and I want to make this right.How do I get my Ex Back?
This is actually a very complicated problem. You may be able to get him back, but from my experience, your behavior during this delicate time is crucial.
You need to STOP texting him and calling him constantly. Give him his space to breathe and give him a chance to miss you. AGREE with the breakup for now.
These two simple things will help get you started. There is actually a really good book on this exact subject. I don't usually believe in a lot of stuff you see online, but I received the advice from above from this book: http://www.LoveRestore.com/ex
Good luck.How do I get my Ex Back?
Yeah your boyfriend is still mad and he is hurting. Let him see how sincere you are when you are apologizing, but you also need to give him time.
It is always harder for guys to have to deal with the fact that they have been cheated on. I hope you are honest with yourself about why you want him back - that you love him and not because being with the other guy did not meet your expectations.
I would suggest sending him an email or a text message, telling him how much you are regretting what you did, how much you love him and that you want him back. He needs to be assured that if he gives you another chance you are not going to break his heart again. Give him time
If you really love him, good luck with getting him back.
Text him one long text covering Everythig you wanna tell him. Say your sorry, you miss him, you made a mistake, tell him how you just wanted to know how another man would feel and your ashamed, tell him you love him and would hope to marry him someday. Tell him all of this and since the text will be so long, he will definetly read it. Make it heartfelt. Good luck
show him that u really love him and u want to be with him. hes probably hurt. but if he sees that ur really regreting it, well he might forgive u someday. the thing is that men sometimes lie about everything. and if they cheat on you they would never tell u. u gotta be careful tho because if he forgives u and he mentions the fact that u had sex with another man all the time for everything, then that wouldn't be forgiving u. write him a letter, i always do that because is the only way a person that's mad with u can pay attention to u. GOOD LUCK! everybody makes mistakes =]
You don't. He has to decide to come back to you (if he wants) and quite frankly it's not likely he will and if he does it will never be the same. The trust is gone. You didn't make a mistake you made a decision that you have to live with. A mistake implies you can correct it which you never truly can.
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