It has been a little over two weeks since I kicked my boyfriend out of my house. We got in a very silly fight. He said something I didn't like, and I got mad. I am pregnant also, so I have not been feeling good. He knows about the pregnancy, he is very happy. Right after I kicked him out he bounced back and said ';the only reason he came back to me after our last fight was because of the baby. he really hoped that we could have made things work.'; Before our fight we were fine. He was saying he loved me and everything.
Untill he showed up 5 days after the break up. I didn't contact him at all. He knocked on the door and gave me my money that he owed me, told me that he would have the rest at the end of the month. He then walked away, he could not look at me, and he was acting very dissapointed. He assured me that he would be back that wednesday to pick his things up. I waited, and he did not show up.
5 more days later he showed up and explained the reason why he did not come and get his things. He said he had been working everyday,This time he was extra friendly. Which I believe was a lie, because my son had spotted him in walmart with his friend. He could have been moving then, But he didn't. He then asked me how I was doing? What I had been up to? After this I mailed him on facebook and told him that I would tag him in pictures of the baby, when it was born. And he wrote back and said I wanna be there, I do not just wanna see pics of it .
So today was the day he was supposed to move out. I waited for awhile and then I decided to call him. I asked him when his mom was coming to get his things. He said his mom went away. So I told him, that I am having a tough time moving on with looking at his things all the time. And we would both find it easier to move on if he came and took it. He said ';ok, I will get ahold of her and see where she is'; So I then waited a little longer, and I decided to call back to see if he was coming. His mom answered the phone and told me he had just laid down for a nap. Keep in mind when I called him today he was starting conversation, and telling me what was going on in his life. He will not add me back to facebook, and I also noticed he added his ex to facebook. My question is... Does it sound like he wants me back? Does it seem he loves me?I am scared he has moved on... and is back with his ex.?
its not wether he wants you back it is do you want him back??? if he isn't going to move his stuff ask his mother to came and get them or pack them away somewhere out of sight. maybe he wants to get back with you or he could just be keeping his options open. if he won't add you back on facebook but he does his ex that is not saying much. you need to stop thinging about what he wants and think about what is best for you ur baby and ur son.
u moght be better off without him and just be friends for the baby sakeI am scared he has moved on... and is back with his ex.?
it sounds like he is sortta moing on but it also seems like he dnt know what he wants wit u?maybe he thinks u want him to move on!sounds fishy but wait it out.hes always goin to be apart of ur life regardless!!!!!
This sounds like he is trying to make a separate life. I know that may be hard to take right now. Try to talk to your friends and reach out to someone close. You shouldn't try to process this kid of a change by yourself, especially now that you're pregnant.
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