Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up today. I'm pretty upset. Im 20 and hes 25. He kinda broke up with me but yet didn't seem to really want too. His main reason was because I didn't tell my mom about his kid. I did last night. He says he wants to be friends and hang out and still loves me and doesn't know if he made the right choice. He said he could tell I didn't like him anymore so he made the choice. I still do. Also i'm to good for him, I know that is actually true but I want to be with him longer. Hang out a bit or what?? How should I do this? and why break up with me if he still loves me. Will he text me? I'm also scared i might be pregnant.How can I get my ex back, and why did he dump me?
he break up with you cause he thinks it's the best cause i'm guess he didn't think you were honest with him and honesty and trust is everything in a relationship and if you don't have it then it won't work out but the best way to get a guy make is to try to show him that you change and tell him that you can be trust and Honest with him and that you really love him with all your heart or you act like you happier with out him and that your not interest in him no more which duh you are but you have to make him think you not cause your ex's always run make to you when they know your happier with out them that makes them mad and don't like that so they try to win you back and half of the time you better off with out him you just think you need him when you don't you need at Better guy for you but with you boyfriend i don't see anything wrong with him accept that he broke up with you because of trust and and honesty which you kinda weren't and you should be! k bye!How can I get my ex back, and why did he dump me?
ok first akour self do ue himtat much an if u think u are pregnant tell him also remind him how much u really love him and dont want to let him go the thin aboutmom shouldnt matter if u to loe each other she woud have to take it my mom cant tell me who to love i care about wat she says but shes not loving him i am ifu guys really love each other every thing should work out i wouldnt wait for him 2 txt me and i think am pregnant i would call ASAP he loves u and there must be somthing hes not telling that he broke of with u but he still loves u sit him down and ask wat is it he shold tell u
About his kid? Hes a single dad? I guess his reason is not that enough. Its not that kinda of a big deal though. If he loves you, then he would not break up with you as easy as that.
Are you scared of losing him or you are scared more coz you might be pregnant? If you found out that you are pregnant, then im sorry but this will be a big mess.
Just be strong.
You have to slow down and think. You have to separate your issues and not blend them together.
First of all if you think you are pregnant, you need to make certain. Go buy a pregnancy test and whether you are or aren't will be a determining factor about a lot of different things you mentioned here.
Uh, at the ages of 20 and 25, you should be a bit more mature. It makes no sense that he claims to be mad at YOU because you didn't tell YOUR mother about HIS child. If it is any of her business, it would be his place to tell her, in the event that you two are really serious about your relationship, as in getting married, which it doesn't sound like you are. You sound like two teenagers trying to decide which movie to go see.
People just don't get the concept of breaking up. If you breakup, you don't hang out and act like your relationship and eventual break up didn't happen. You go your separate ways, you can be cordial and polite, but you don't have to be in each others lives, unless of course you are pregnant then that changes things. Will he text you? Who cares about text messages? Have we all forgotten about the telephone? You have more important issues to resolve than to worry about text messages.
If someone tells you that you are too good for them, it is most likely true. Best Wishes.
Maybe he thought because you didn't tell your mom about his kid that you were ashamed or not serious about him. If you love him and he loves you i don't see what the big problem is, hang out with him maybe you guys can work things out. Also, be sure you really like him cause when you really like someone you don't look down on them and think that you're better.
If he dumped you then it means he doesn't want you so let him go.
You should tell him you still like him and wanna b with him! He probably will still text you. And if your scared your pregnant you should take a test and then tell him.
Okay for starters go get a preg test. Then read what you wrote. Also i'm to good for him, I know that is actually true but I want to be with him longer. You don't want to be with him by what you said because the key word in that is longer. So it's not the fact of the relationship ending it's the fact that it ended too soon for you. Also you should NEVER be with someone you think you're too good for. Leave it alone and if you are pregnant inform him but don't waste anymore of your time. Sorry if that sounds rough but I know for a fact.
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