How do I get my Ex back?

We went out for a very short time because I let her friend talk me into going out with her and I was too stressed to keep up with the relationship so she dumped me but now I have finally got all my affairs in order is there any way to get her to go back out with me and see I'm not always a jerk?How do I get my Ex back?
Hey





Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore someone's texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Don't Be Jealous





You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Being Flexible Is Very Important





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:





http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>





For other great tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back you can also check this article:





http://www.squidoo.com/Getting-Back-Toge鈥?/a>





I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.


Good luck!How do I get my Ex back?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
I really wish I knew the answer to this myself
be a man and tell her all of this...goodluck