I've Been In A Relationship On %26amp;%26amp; Off For 1year %26amp;%26amp; 3months, And I Want My Ex Back And What Me And Him To Work Out This Time Around Without Him Being So Friendly To Other People And Doing Things That Make Me Think He's Actually Doing Something!. I Love Him So Much %26amp;%26amp; I REALLY Want To Be With Him So What Should I Do To Have Him Back In My Arms [FOREVER]!?How To Get My Ex-Back?
To start with I am a little concerned that you are wanting to get back with your ex while you are involved in another relationship. That to me speaks volumes about your ability to make a commitment.
I hate to be so frank but if you were truly in love with either person you wouldn't be having sex with both of them. Unless you are so insecure that you feel that you have to have a man to be happy.
My advice to you would be to spend some time with yourself and decide what you want out of life. In the long run you will be a much more committed partner.
Plus it sounds as if you have trust issues with your ex, fix them before getting involved with him again.How To Get My Ex-Back?
From my experience, if you already have been on and off and its ONLY been a year and a half, then i suggest you not get back with him. The relationship seems like its been rough and their was doubts so getting back with him may last for several months but you will problee end up back at square one. This door is already close, and there is a better opportunity that is open, take the alternative route.
Everything isnt always laid out in black and white. If it was this would be a perfect world.
Without any details its hard to say anything. It sounds like you really love him and do want to be with him and thats definately a start.
Below is some great articles on getting an ex back. You may just want to take a bit of time and read them
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do I get my ex back?
Me and my girlfriend broke up two months ago, and she became my boss at work. Well some days we fight at work and some days we flirt. Even though we are not together anymore, i still fall even more in love with her every day. I want to get her back but she has a boyfriend and I dont want to seem to pathedic. Some one please help!!!!!How do I get my ex back?
Sounds like she has moved on, but if you must, begin by complimenting her and ask her out to lunch. Then send her some anonymous flowers and a card. What ever it is you and her fight about stop it and if you cant work somewhere else. Sit down and try to figure out why you and her broke up and work on it and let her see that you have taken care of it. Hell she was your g/f figure something out.How do I get my ex back?
Pretend to move on with someone else in the office and she will get jealous and either want you back or fire you. When a woman doesn't want you she also doesn't want anyone else to ant you. I say have fun making her jealous. Either she'll come back or she won't ,either way you'll have fun.
quit working with her. give her some space.
I think u should try 2 move forward. U should realize that if she wanted u back then she wouldnt have broken up with u. She has moved on in her life and u should do the same. U said that u fight at work, love doesnt hurt it suppose 2 help. Just think about that, I know its hard to let go but there are other women in the world that u can give a chance.
So break them up. Be nice to her, but not to him.
Go put a used condom in his car on the passenger side, where she could find it when she gets in his car. No way she would believe, that it's not his. You can just spit in the condom or put mayonnaise in it.
All you are trying to do is cause doubt in her mind. She may even confide in you for advise. Just ';Be there for her';. She will come back to you.
Tell her you never stopped loving her, and still do. But only after, she comes to you and asks advice.
youve been there. seen it. and done it..you only want her back because you know you cant have her...what if! she dumped her boyfriend for you and went back with you...do you think you could live happy ever after? i mean why did you seperate in the first place there must of been a good reason..any way...i would not let it bother me 1 bit. i would not argue with her or even bother flirting with her any more. in the mean time look for another job..and just push out a little hint your looking..then take it from there.
you didn't say why you broke up? what happened and maybe you all broke up because you are not the one for her. think about your relationship you had with her?????is it worth trying to get her back? and get a job somewhere else where you are not constantly flirting or fighting with someone who has a boyfriend. you wouldn't like it if she came back to you and was still flirting and fighting with her ex would you?leave her alone for a while.
Sounds like she has moved on, but if you must, begin by complimenting her and ask her out to lunch. Then send her some anonymous flowers and a card. What ever it is you and her fight about stop it and if you cant work somewhere else. Sit down and try to figure out why you and her broke up and work on it and let her see that you have taken care of it. Hell she was your g/f figure something out.How do I get my ex back?
Pretend to move on with someone else in the office and she will get jealous and either want you back or fire you. When a woman doesn't want you she also doesn't want anyone else to ant you. I say have fun making her jealous. Either she'll come back or she won't ,either way you'll have fun.
quit working with her. give her some space.
I think u should try 2 move forward. U should realize that if she wanted u back then she wouldnt have broken up with u. She has moved on in her life and u should do the same. U said that u fight at work, love doesnt hurt it suppose 2 help. Just think about that, I know its hard to let go but there are other women in the world that u can give a chance.
So break them up. Be nice to her, but not to him.
Go put a used condom in his car on the passenger side, where she could find it when she gets in his car. No way she would believe, that it's not his. You can just spit in the condom or put mayonnaise in it.
All you are trying to do is cause doubt in her mind. She may even confide in you for advise. Just ';Be there for her';. She will come back to you.
Tell her you never stopped loving her, and still do. But only after, she comes to you and asks advice.
youve been there. seen it. and done it..you only want her back because you know you cant have her...what if! she dumped her boyfriend for you and went back with you...do you think you could live happy ever after? i mean why did you seperate in the first place there must of been a good reason..any way...i would not let it bother me 1 bit. i would not argue with her or even bother flirting with her any more. in the mean time look for another job..and just push out a little hint your looking..then take it from there.
you didn't say why you broke up? what happened and maybe you all broke up because you are not the one for her. think about your relationship you had with her?????is it worth trying to get her back? and get a job somewhere else where you are not constantly flirting or fighting with someone who has a boyfriend. you wouldn't like it if she came back to you and was still flirting and fighting with her ex would you?leave her alone for a while.
Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?
I'm want my ex back. And all the previous questions I ask about how to get him back, start a conversation with him, etc turned out not to be very helpful. All they said was there is a reason why he is your ex, etc. I know but I think there is a second chance and I wouldn't of asked if I didn't want him back. So if you can say some good things about going back out with an ex. go for it. Thanks.Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?
dear I feel for you I really do I know how it is. Now I am one that falls for my ex. And it is really hard once you and your ex breaks up. I know that. And you want nothing more but to see him with you and you do not want to see him with any one else. I have not read your other questions yet but if communications was one of them then you could just go to him and ask him if he will have a talk with you. If you want to talk about this problem you can get me at Danny_Mary_2005@yahoo.com then I can help more.Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?
I follow the rule that you can't recycle green glass, no matter how much you want to save the world. Ex-es are green glass, don't cut yourself trying to recycle them!
i dont think so
u r goin back because i guess u r not finding some one else
I think eventually you will end up at the same place that made you break up in the first place.
Nothing wrong with that. Anyone that you date you should always try and part as friends - you would be surprised how many you will run across later in life.
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dear I feel for you I really do I know how it is. Now I am one that falls for my ex. And it is really hard once you and your ex breaks up. I know that. And you want nothing more but to see him with you and you do not want to see him with any one else. I have not read your other questions yet but if communications was one of them then you could just go to him and ask him if he will have a talk with you. If you want to talk about this problem you can get me at Danny_Mary_2005@yahoo.com then I can help more.Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?
I follow the rule that you can't recycle green glass, no matter how much you want to save the world. Ex-es are green glass, don't cut yourself trying to recycle them!
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i dont think so
u r goin back because i guess u r not finding some one else
I think eventually you will end up at the same place that made you break up in the first place.
Nothing wrong with that. Anyone that you date you should always try and part as friends - you would be surprised how many you will run across later in life.
wtf
Want ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?
want advise how to get back with my ex husband who i love very muchWant ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?
if he is married to another, he made the choice, and do u really want this disease, best to cut all ties with him and let it be what it is. he is married.Want ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?
There had to have been reasons for your marriage to end in divorce.
And now that he remarried, you want him back?
Is it the challenge that stimulates you, for you to have something that you can't have?
Or is it that you're having a dry spell in your love life and your ex is looking attractive to you again?
Leave him alone.
How would you feel if some woman was out to get your man?
My strong advice to you is to leave them alone. Why would you want to be with someone who married another? To truly love someone is to let them live their lives in a way that makes them happy, he is not happy with you. Leave them alone or he could very well grow to hate you. This is what happened to my husbands ex wife, she wouldn't leave us alone and now he hates her.
WHAT? Girl you had your chance, now move on... and WHY? Would you want him back and what cause you to break up in the first place? Think about all that? For get it... and just move on... OH! Does he want you back? You can still love him but in a different way in a special place in your heart there's nothing wrong with that... Be happy and move on there's more men out there even better don't look backwards move forward and best wishes to you ok.
I think I need more details, what type of hepatitis does his wife have anyway? And, here is the real problem, he is a married man. So actually I don't need more details. He is married now, move on. Sorry.
Um, if he's now married to someone else, especially one with a communicable disease (depending on the type), I think you had best let this one go.
He married someone else. It will pass, you are probably feeling shafted due to the new marriage. Move on with your life.
If that's what he likes then it is not too difficult to get a surgery and make your tities hep too.
He is married. You should move on.
Stay away.
i guess you think hepatitis is fun to have and you need it so go get your ex back
Girl i think you should just let it go...And move on.
if he is married to another, he made the choice, and do u really want this disease, best to cut all ties with him and let it be what it is. he is married.Want ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?
There had to have been reasons for your marriage to end in divorce.
And now that he remarried, you want him back?
Is it the challenge that stimulates you, for you to have something that you can't have?
Or is it that you're having a dry spell in your love life and your ex is looking attractive to you again?
Leave him alone.
How would you feel if some woman was out to get your man?
My strong advice to you is to leave them alone. Why would you want to be with someone who married another? To truly love someone is to let them live their lives in a way that makes them happy, he is not happy with you. Leave them alone or he could very well grow to hate you. This is what happened to my husbands ex wife, she wouldn't leave us alone and now he hates her.
WHAT? Girl you had your chance, now move on... and WHY? Would you want him back and what cause you to break up in the first place? Think about all that? For get it... and just move on... OH! Does he want you back? You can still love him but in a different way in a special place in your heart there's nothing wrong with that... Be happy and move on there's more men out there even better don't look backwards move forward and best wishes to you ok.
I think I need more details, what type of hepatitis does his wife have anyway? And, here is the real problem, he is a married man. So actually I don't need more details. He is married now, move on. Sorry.
Um, if he's now married to someone else, especially one with a communicable disease (depending on the type), I think you had best let this one go.
He married someone else. It will pass, you are probably feeling shafted due to the new marriage. Move on with your life.
If that's what he likes then it is not too difficult to get a surgery and make your tities hep too.
He is married. You should move on.
Stay away.
i guess you think hepatitis is fun to have and you need it so go get your ex back
Girl i think you should just let it go...And move on.
I need advice on how to get my ex back.?
My ex and i broke up a couple of months ago because her friends thought she was spending too much time with me. When we broke up she still wanted to me to hang out with her and there have been a couple of close calls (us about to make-out and other stuff...). I think she still wants to get back together with me but I'm really not sure. How should I approach her?I need advice on how to get my ex back.?
well if she broke up with you because of her friends i doubt she really cares for you its your guys relationship not you her and her friendsI need advice on how to get my ex back.?
Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking.
My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.
Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:
http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/
well first of all, if she is going to break up with you because HER friends THINK she is spending too much time with you i dont think it is worth it. but if it is worth it to you then just tell her the you have never lost those feelings for her. tell her you want to be with her again and you will try and make it to where her friends have time for her as well. compromise! good luck!
tell her how you feel, why you guys broke up, and what you really think about this whole matter.
well if she broke up with you because of her friends i doubt she really cares for you its your guys relationship not you her and her friendsI need advice on how to get my ex back.?
Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking.
My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.
Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:
http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/
well first of all, if she is going to break up with you because HER friends THINK she is spending too much time with you i dont think it is worth it. but if it is worth it to you then just tell her the you have never lost those feelings for her. tell her you want to be with her again and you will try and make it to where her friends have time for her as well. compromise! good luck!
tell her how you feel, why you guys broke up, and what you really think about this whole matter.
How can i get my ex back!?
i still love my ex and i want to ask him out again but im nervous hes gonna say no bc its been two years. and we dont hang out anymore so please dont suggest hang out with him bc thats out of the question we are either going to be dating or not be friendsHow can i get my ex back!?
you really gotta be honest with yourself.Call him,say how've u been?i miss u or whatever comes from your heart,you'll never know how he feels until you ask him,better late than never..How can i get my ex back!?
Don't bother. You two broke up for a reason. Those reasons will just come back if you try to go back out with him.
you really gotta be honest with yourself.Call him,say how've u been?i miss u or whatever comes from your heart,you'll never know how he feels until you ask him,better late than never..How can i get my ex back!?
Don't bother. You two broke up for a reason. Those reasons will just come back if you try to go back out with him.
How do i get my ex back?
me and my ex boyfriend broke up dec of 2007 and he got a new girlfriend in july. when ever we see each other (which is rare) he wont speak to me. i wanna be with him but idk if he feels the same. he's still with this girl but when we do talk he makes it seem as is if he wishes i would have said it earlier.....is it too late??? i love him he was my first love and i want him back.How do i get my ex back?
There are a few things you can do. I read a blog earlier that gave some good tips on getting an ex back.
I'll leave a link below for you to read. I hope this helps...How do i get my ex back?
If you are feeling broken hearted, lonely and despondent because of a relationship breakup, no matter how long ago, and you long for the return of a lost love, I suggest you check out the link below.
Hope it helps.
The biggest mistake that you could do is to show that you are desperate about herself /himself. Let him make the first step, otherwise you may look like a fool. Do not play to hard, also. You can get great advice in my source.
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
You sound young. You will get over it.
Hey
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously call him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>
I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
Good luck!
There are a few things you can do. I read a blog earlier that gave some good tips on getting an ex back.
I'll leave a link below for you to read. I hope this helps...How do i get my ex back?
If you are feeling broken hearted, lonely and despondent because of a relationship breakup, no matter how long ago, and you long for the return of a lost love, I suggest you check out the link below.
Hope it helps.
The biggest mistake that you could do is to show that you are desperate about herself /himself. Let him make the first step, otherwise you may look like a fool. Do not play to hard, also. You can get great advice in my source.
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
You sound young. You will get over it.
Hey
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously call him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>
I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
Good luck!
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