Friday, August 20, 2010

How To Get My Ex-Back?

I've Been In A Relationship On %26amp;%26amp; Off For 1year %26amp;%26amp; 3months, And I Want My Ex Back And What Me And Him To Work Out This Time Around Without Him Being So Friendly To Other People And Doing Things That Make Me Think He's Actually Doing Something!. I Love Him So Much %26amp;%26amp; I REALLY Want To Be With Him So What Should I Do To Have Him Back In My Arms [FOREVER]!?How To Get My Ex-Back?
To start with I am a little concerned that you are wanting to get back with your ex while you are involved in another relationship. That to me speaks volumes about your ability to make a commitment.





I hate to be so frank but if you were truly in love with either person you wouldn't be having sex with both of them. Unless you are so insecure that you feel that you have to have a man to be happy.





My advice to you would be to spend some time with yourself and decide what you want out of life. In the long run you will be a much more committed partner.





Plus it sounds as if you have trust issues with your ex, fix them before getting involved with him again.How To Get My Ex-Back?
From my experience, if you already have been on and off and its ONLY been a year and a half, then i suggest you not get back with him. The relationship seems like its been rough and their was doubts so getting back with him may last for several months but you will problee end up back at square one. This door is already close, and there is a better opportunity that is open, take the alternative route.
Everything isnt always laid out in black and white. If it was this would be a perfect world.





Without any details its hard to say anything. It sounds like you really love him and do want to be with him and thats definately a start.





Below is some great articles on getting an ex back. You may just want to take a bit of time and read them

How do I get my ex back?

Me and my girlfriend broke up two months ago, and she became my boss at work. Well some days we fight at work and some days we flirt. Even though we are not together anymore, i still fall even more in love with her every day. I want to get her back but she has a boyfriend and I dont want to seem to pathedic. Some one please help!!!!!How do I get my ex back?
Sounds like she has moved on, but if you must, begin by complimenting her and ask her out to lunch. Then send her some anonymous flowers and a card. What ever it is you and her fight about stop it and if you cant work somewhere else. Sit down and try to figure out why you and her broke up and work on it and let her see that you have taken care of it. Hell she was your g/f figure something out.How do I get my ex back?
Pretend to move on with someone else in the office and she will get jealous and either want you back or fire you. When a woman doesn't want you she also doesn't want anyone else to ant you. I say have fun making her jealous. Either she'll come back or she won't ,either way you'll have fun.
quit working with her. give her some space.
I think u should try 2 move forward. U should realize that if she wanted u back then she wouldnt have broken up with u. She has moved on in her life and u should do the same. U said that u fight at work, love doesnt hurt it suppose 2 help. Just think about that, I know its hard to let go but there are other women in the world that u can give a chance.
So break them up. Be nice to her, but not to him.


Go put a used condom in his car on the passenger side, where she could find it when she gets in his car. No way she would believe, that it's not his. You can just spit in the condom or put mayonnaise in it.





All you are trying to do is cause doubt in her mind. She may even confide in you for advise. Just ';Be there for her';. She will come back to you.





Tell her you never stopped loving her, and still do. But only after, she comes to you and asks advice.
youve been there. seen it. and done it..you only want her back because you know you cant have her...what if! she dumped her boyfriend for you and went back with you...do you think you could live happy ever after? i mean why did you seperate in the first place there must of been a good reason..any way...i would not let it bother me 1 bit. i would not argue with her or even bother flirting with her any more. in the mean time look for another job..and just push out a little hint your looking..then take it from there.
you didn't say why you broke up? what happened and maybe you all broke up because you are not the one for her. think about your relationship you had with her?????is it worth trying to get her back? and get a job somewhere else where you are not constantly flirting or fighting with someone who has a boyfriend. you wouldn't like it if she came back to you and was still flirting and fighting with her ex would you?leave her alone for a while.

Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?

I'm want my ex back. And all the previous questions I ask about how to get him back, start a conversation with him, etc turned out not to be very helpful. All they said was there is a reason why he is your ex, etc. I know but I think there is a second chance and I wouldn't of asked if I didn't want him back. So if you can say some good things about going back out with an ex. go for it. Thanks.Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?
dear I feel for you I really do I know how it is. Now I am one that falls for my ex. And it is really hard once you and your ex breaks up. I know that. And you want nothing more but to see him with you and you do not want to see him with any one else. I have not read your other questions yet but if communications was one of them then you could just go to him and ask him if he will have a talk with you. If you want to talk about this problem you can get me at Danny_Mary_2005@yahoo.com then I can help more.Is there any good things that can come from going back out with an ex?
I follow the rule that you can't recycle green glass, no matter how much you want to save the world. Ex-es are green glass, don't cut yourself trying to recycle them!

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i dont think so


u r goin back because i guess u r not finding some one else
I think eventually you will end up at the same place that made you break up in the first place.
Nothing wrong with that. Anyone that you date you should always try and part as friends - you would be surprised how many you will run across later in life.
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  • Want ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?

    want advise how to get back with my ex husband who i love very muchWant ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?
    if he is married to another, he made the choice, and do u really want this disease, best to cut all ties with him and let it be what it is. he is married.Want ex back but he married a women with heptitis ?
    There had to have been reasons for your marriage to end in divorce.





    And now that he remarried, you want him back?





    Is it the challenge that stimulates you, for you to have something that you can't have?





    Or is it that you're having a dry spell in your love life and your ex is looking attractive to you again?





    Leave him alone.


    How would you feel if some woman was out to get your man?
    My strong advice to you is to leave them alone. Why would you want to be with someone who married another? To truly love someone is to let them live their lives in a way that makes them happy, he is not happy with you. Leave them alone or he could very well grow to hate you. This is what happened to my husbands ex wife, she wouldn't leave us alone and now he hates her.
    WHAT? Girl you had your chance, now move on... and WHY? Would you want him back and what cause you to break up in the first place? Think about all that? For get it... and just move on... OH! Does he want you back? You can still love him but in a different way in a special place in your heart there's nothing wrong with that... Be happy and move on there's more men out there even better don't look backwards move forward and best wishes to you ok.
    I think I need more details, what type of hepatitis does his wife have anyway? And, here is the real problem, he is a married man. So actually I don't need more details. He is married now, move on. Sorry.
    Um, if he's now married to someone else, especially one with a communicable disease (depending on the type), I think you had best let this one go.
    He married someone else. It will pass, you are probably feeling shafted due to the new marriage. Move on with your life.



    If that's what he likes then it is not too difficult to get a surgery and make your tities hep too.
    He is married. You should move on.
    Stay away.
    i guess you think hepatitis is fun to have and you need it so go get your ex back
    Girl i think you should just let it go...And move on.

    I need advice on how to get my ex back.?

    My ex and i broke up a couple of months ago because her friends thought she was spending too much time with me. When we broke up she still wanted to me to hang out with her and there have been a couple of close calls (us about to make-out and other stuff...). I think she still wants to get back together with me but I'm really not sure. How should I approach her?I need advice on how to get my ex back.?
    well if she broke up with you because of her friends i doubt she really cares for you its your guys relationship not you her and her friendsI need advice on how to get my ex back.?
    Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking.





    My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





    I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





    Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





    http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/
    well first of all, if she is going to break up with you because HER friends THINK she is spending too much time with you i dont think it is worth it. but if it is worth it to you then just tell her the you have never lost those feelings for her. tell her you want to be with her again and you will try and make it to where her friends have time for her as well. compromise! good luck!
    tell her how you feel, why you guys broke up, and what you really think about this whole matter.

    How can i get my ex back!?

    i still love my ex and i want to ask him out again but im nervous hes gonna say no bc its been two years. and we dont hang out anymore so please dont suggest hang out with him bc thats out of the question we are either going to be dating or not be friendsHow can i get my ex back!?
    you really gotta be honest with yourself.Call him,say how've u been?i miss u or whatever comes from your heart,you'll never know how he feels until you ask him,better late than never..How can i get my ex back!?
    Don't bother. You two broke up for a reason. Those reasons will just come back if you try to go back out with him.

    How do i get my ex back?

    me and my ex boyfriend broke up dec of 2007 and he got a new girlfriend in july. when ever we see each other (which is rare) he wont speak to me. i wanna be with him but idk if he feels the same. he's still with this girl but when we do talk he makes it seem as is if he wishes i would have said it earlier.....is it too late??? i love him he was my first love and i want him back.How do i get my ex back?
    There are a few things you can do. I read a blog earlier that gave some good tips on getting an ex back.





    I'll leave a link below for you to read. I hope this helps...How do i get my ex back?
    If you are feeling broken hearted, lonely and despondent because of a relationship breakup, no matter how long ago, and you long for the return of a lost love, I suggest you check out the link below.





    Hope it helps.
    The biggest mistake that you could do is to show that you are desperate about herself /himself. Let him make the first step, otherwise you may look like a fool. Do not play to hard, also. You can get great advice in my source.
    A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


    There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
    You sound young. You will get over it.
    Hey





    Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





    if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps:





    1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





    Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.





    2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously call him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.





    3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.





    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





    You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:





    http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-u鈥?/a>





    I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.


    Good luck!

    How can I get a my pisces ex back?

    I broke up with my girlfriends because I was mad. It was over somthing really small. I was just mad. And said some hurtful things that I didn't mean. And now she won't even talk to me at all. It's beens days. How can I get her back? I am a aries. She is a pisces.How can I get a my pisces ex back?
    Oh .. why did you do that! Pisces are known for being very sensitive, what you've said must have hurt her. Even when we don't say much, lots goes through our mind. Now she will be thinking what a !@#$%^ you are, since you are so heartless she'll do just the same, she'll want to show you that she doesn't need you, n that she can do just as well, if not better without you, thus the ignore!





    You need to give her a couple of days to cool down but not too long, say 4-5 days max, she'll be feeling really miserable n probably tear randomly in these few days .. ok text her on her cellphone (don't do this in person cuz she may not know how to react when she sees you n will potentially make this worst), n DON'T ever ignore this and pretend that everything's ok, we hate that.





    You need to apologise, but keep it short. Ask if she's still mad, acknowledge what an Idiot you are (even if you don't mean it, ya we love to hear you say that about yourself in an apology! =P) for saying those stupid stuff. - She'll either reply with something angry OR most likely ignore your text. It's ok, she has forgiven you just want to make you work a bit harder haha.





    Don't spam, do this on a daily basis, follow up the following day. Say you wonder how is she doing, is everything fine (point is to show concern). - if she still ignore your text, no worries on that.





    Next .. tell her you are getting worried (if still no reply from her), use words like ';please'; at least reply so you know she is ok. Usually i'll give in at this point but i know other pisces ladies who are .. well, harder to please ;)





    Say she still refuses to talk to you, next step will be (show you care about the relationship, still via text) tell her you walk by a certain place n recall a happy moment for both of you. Try to fill her mind with special moments that you two shared, as pisces are very sentimental people n always find the past a little too hard to let go. Anyway with all that i bet she'll be back with you in no time! Go get her romeo! Cheers! ;)How can I get a my pisces ex back?
    Well, If I had an Aries boyfriend who really hurt me emotionally, This is what he would have to do to win


    my heart again.....


    #1 give me time


    #2 Tell me how stupid, unthoughtful,


    and mean he was.


    #3 Take me where first met or


    first date.


    #4 And tell me how much I mean


    to him.


    Your Pisces ex most likely still loves you and avoids you because she may start crying if she talked to you so if she is really sensitive a letter would be a great idea, ask her to meet you at a special place she loves. If my Ex did that I would forgive him.





    Hope you win her heart back=)
    I'm a Pisces female. Pisces can really vary since we are a very complex sign and encompass aspects of all of the zodiac, so different traits can be stronger in different Pisces. Generally, Pisces can get emotionally hurt very easily, even if they don't show that they are. She is probably really hurt by what you said and she may even feel that she can't trust you to take care and protect her inner emotional self. I would give her a little space (a few days) to work through he hurt then pursue her apologizing profusely. Us Pisces do forgive, but you have to be humble and really show that she means a lot to you and that you are generally sorry that you hurt her. Show her that she is special to you - and not just through words, but through actions. Do something really special for her. You also need to show her that you treasure her and that you won't let your temper get the better of you again. Trust is a fragile thing with us, especially if we channel of bit of the Scorpio trust issues. She may have a little trouble trusting that you won't hurt her again. So, as I said before apologize (be specific) and DO something to show her how much she means to you. Put effort and planning into it. Keep in mind that we want love above all else and we want to trust someone to keep our inner, sensitive selves safe (that means not saying hurtful things when angry). Good luck!
    Sorry to say but once you break her heart, she'll never recover completely. Pisces women are very sensitive and words hurt us a lot.


    I'm a pisces woman dated an aries for 2 years and we broke up because of his temper and hurting words.


    She'll need time to think and heal her wounds but I'm quite sure she'll come back, we forget easily.


    If you're sure you won't make the same mistake again (which is almost impossible for high-tempered aries), send her flowers, express your love romantically, take her to a moonlit dinner or something. Now she has trust issues in her head and she sees you as a threat to her fragile heart. Gain her trust back with a deep look through her eyes





    Good luck, you've a hardwork to do :)
    u try to make her understand your mistake. And try to convince her that it was ur biggest mistake to hurt here without any much reason. And give her time. If she is really serious about u, she will not bothered much about what u have said to her. and will definitely come back to you. All the best!!!
    Pisces are extremely sensitive and if you said some really hurtful things she may never forgive you. You might just have to accept things the way they are unless she comes back to you.
    Watch your mouth.





    Pisces
    ur fuked
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  • What can i do to get back my ex bestfriend?

    We were bestfriends in middle school, but we haven't exactly spoken in a couple years. He meant the world to me- he STILL means the world to me. We were young and immature and broke up over stupid things that neither of us can remember anymore, but we've both grown up now and I REALLY want to be friends again. problem is, we aren't exactly on speaking terms.





    how can i go about becoming friends with him again? or should i just give it up?What can i do to get back my ex bestfriend?
    Tell him how you still like him.What can i do to get back my ex bestfriend?
    quit being a B**** if you really care about it that much then just tell him what you feel.
    Depends... How did you break up?

    How can I get my ex back?

    we dated for 8 months, and didn't break up that long ago. it wasn't a bad one, and he's still attracted to me (like he would kiss me back if I kissed him now) but he isn't in love with me and I still am. what can I do to get him to realize that he lost something great?How can I get my ex back?
    Here is a great article on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to: http://www.exbackguides.com/How can I get my ex back?
    One of my best friends went through a breakup recently. She and her fiance broke up after 4 years together. It was a pretty nasty breakup and she never thought they would ever get back together, but she ended up finding a website that helped her tremendously.





    In fact, she claims the guide she found from that site was the only reason she was able to get her ex-fiance back and they are back together and happier then ever.





    Here is the website if you are interested - I hope it can do for you what it did for her...





    http://www.GetBackWithYourExToday.com
    don't talk to him for a while . and act like your over him and found someone new .

    How do i win back my ex boyfriend even though i ended it to go out with his mate? im not happy.?

    I cant get over my ex of two and a half years. I ended it because I thought i liked his mate and it would work. I'm now going out with his mate but am not happy. I can't stop thinking about my ex and would do anything to be with him again. He doesn't want to talk to me as he is trying to get over me. is there anyway i can win him back?How do i win back my ex boyfriend even though i ended it to go out with his mate? im not happy.?
    I'm afraid you totally fuct it up there. Dumping him for his mate is a big no-no. Surely you must understand that? What, are you, 16? He's already crossed you off his freinds list and done the same for his ';mate'; too - why would he risk you trampling on him all over again so you can dump his *** a 2nd time (probably with another ';mate';)?





    If he takes you back he is incredibley niave or stupid or both. In anycase you've got some SERIOUS work to do if you want him back. YOU have to do ALL the work and chasing and he should NOT have to lift a finger to get back with you, whether he is ';The Man'; in the relationship or not. Swallow your pride, pucker up and kiss serious @ss.How do i win back my ex boyfriend even though i ended it to go out with his mate? im not happy.?
    Hey,





    Yes it is possible to get an ex boyfriend back in this type of situation, I learned how to get back with an ex although I'm a guy so it's the other way around.





    Here are some points that may help...





    * Don't come across as being clingy. In other words, don't go begging him to take you back, or telling him you can't live without him, this can actually backfire.





    * Don't constantly contact him. It may be tough but it's probably not a good idea to call or text him everyday.





    * Read about how other people did it. Lots of others have been through this before and you can learn what worked for them and use it to get your ex boyfriend back.
    unlucky. you dumped him to go out with his mate ! theres no going back there lovely
    i don't think you deserve him back after you've dumped him for his mate. imagine how he feels.

    How can I get my ex back?

    We were together for 2 1/2 years and now he has someone new, but we still love eachother!! Idk what to do, to get him back since he's with another girl!Do i leave it alone and see what happens or do i fight for what I want??How can I get my ex back?
    Many people do get their ex back successfully, so no reason that you can't do it.





    All you need to do is work on their mindset. Here are some god tips for you, including a complete solution for girls to get their ex man back and another complete solution for men to get their ex girl back highlighted :





    http://www.get-your-ex-back.infoHow can I get my ex back?
    I know this isn't what you want to hear but you need to move on and trust that someone who is truly right for you will come to you. What is yours will come to you. If he loved you enough, he would be with you and not with someone else. Let him go and move on. Good luck!
    you cannot %26amp; you shouldn't get him back. he is the EX





    move on, he is part of the past not the future
    When you love someone you don't get someone new.





    He's moved on.....respect yourself and do the same.

    Would you try to get your ex back?

    I was with my bf for over three years. He broke up with me last saturday and we haven't had any type of contact since. I am trying to respect his wishes but i love him so incrediably much i can't eat, sleep, eat or function. Should I try to reach out to talk to him and let him know how i feel? or should i just leave it alone? if i should try to reach out to him should i see him in person, text him, email him?Would you try to get your ex back?
    It happens all the time. People get back together. Tell him how you feel and see what he thinks. He might feel the same way as you, you never know.


    But how you feel is normal too. When i broke up with my ex boyfriend i was like you. I lost so much wait. I couldn't eat, think, i was crying my eyes out all the time. But time heals everything if it not meant to be.


    Actually... for me... that was the best thing that has ever happened. I met the men of my dreams. We are married for 4 years now and have been together for 5. Life it is still magical which i didn't think is possible. We are also expecting a baby :o)


    So my point is: ';You never know what you can win, when you loose something.';


    There is hope in the end of the tunnel. There are good man out there. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try to get your man back if you think that is what you want.Would you try to get your ex back?
    sweetie...





    No, don't do this. Give yourself some more time to heal. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I didn't want to, I loved him very much. I was in love with him when I broke up with him and I am still in love with him. But I just knew we couldn't be together right now.





    Let them go. Give yourself time to heal. It hurts, and I miss my ex like hell. But things WILL get better. Keep your head up and stay strong. What you need to do is try and be with friends as much as possible right now. Focus on YOU and what makes YOU happy. Forget about him. Every time he pops in your head.. dismiss it.





    I'm sorry your heart broken sweetie.. I know how you feel. But things will get better. I promise. But let them go..
    Talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling. That helps me get over the sick-nervous feeling I have when things are on my mind. Then he will reply and from that you will both see what is going on at this point. However, if fights ensue or the conversation isn't going anywhere, you will have cleared the air as far as you are concerned and you can get on with your life. I wish you well.
    I tried and it didn't work out. I just got rejected and it left me even more heartbroken than before. I know what you're going through and it sucks, but you need to take some time to yourself. Hang out with friends, join a club, meet new people, do anything to take your mind off of him. Eventually, it will become easier and easier, but you'll definitely feel crappy for a long time. Just take your time and you will be back to normal soon. Sorry to hear this.





    Good Luck
    I would try. Why not, if my emotions want me to?





    And yes, you can get your ex back. Many people including a friend of mine have done this.





    You need to do some things and avoid some other things to increase the chances of getting him back.





    My friend could get his ex back following this guideline from a tough situation after a nasty break up:





    http://www.get-your-ex-back.info
    no he'll think your clingy, jus write to him and ask if you could still be friends im srry but i hate it when one of my boyfriend message me after i broke up with him say stuff like get back and stuff so yeah dont it'll maybe annoy him so think of a plan muhahaha nah jk, try to cheer up go out with someone else for a change?
    Try talking to him casualy for a while. once thats done maybe you guys should try seeing eachother in person if the whole talking thing goes well. As for your relationship.. see if it comes up before you bring it up. if it doesnt just ask him how he feels about it. dont push the issue it will push him away.
    He broke up with you..he does not care how you feel. Why do you want to grovel to someone who no longer wants to be with you. Don't you have any self-respect?





    Move on with your life...it might be rough...but, having been there and done that myself, you WILL get over him.
    well since the break up was not so long ago, i think u should just let things be right now and let him sort out his mind and feelings. later on you should most deff contact him but dont make it awkward or anything like that. if u see him around say hi and stuff...
    If you really want him back, you should definitely reach out to him. Don't beg him to come back though. You should call him. Don't text or email him. At least not yet.





    I hope this helps...
    Hi, I can totally feel your sadness through your message as you are really having a long relationship of 3 years together. You have just broke up recently so you will definitely feel lost of what to do next. Please take my advice to cool yourself off first and do not rush into trying different tricks that you can find online as this may cause you to be unable to get back your ex.





    I will suggest that you read my articles that I have posted on Ezine and you will understand that some of things that you are trying to do right now may be affecting what you are going to achieve which is getting back your ex. You have to think through carefully with a cool mind and you will definitely be able to analyze what are the things you are going to do. I know it may be hard right now as you are pretty sad but tell yourself this is a important process that you need to really cool yourself in order to think carefully.





    Hope you will be able to cool down and research on what to do first before you try anything out. I believe you will be able to get your ex back one day as you have already taken the actions to share your problems with us and really hope this will help you greatly. All the best to you and must have faith in yourself.
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  • Is it possible to get you ex boyfriend back and how?

    I went my ex back! I broke up with him and we said we would stay friends but that hasn't really happened! How can I get him back?





    thanksIs it possible to get you ex boyfriend back and how?
    A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


    There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


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    Hello





    Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





    If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:





    1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





    Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.





    2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously call him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.





    3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.





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    Getting back with your ex is all about playing your cards right. So many people simply try and do anything they can to get them back, but that actually just ends up pushing them farther away!





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    The guy who runs that was in your position once, but got out of it and now helps people do the same. His first email will actually be one of the best you'll ever receieve (it helped me a LOT).





    Hope this helps?
    Hi Siof,





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    Good luck
    I am sorry but you cannot force him to get back with you.


    If he has chosen to avoid being friends then you have to accept this.


    Very seldom can past lovers remain friends as they find it too hard.





    You need to move on as it sounds like he has.





    Do not become his stalker.
    You could say that you love him and all that might work.


    Or you could let him go, and if he loves you enough to be


    your boyfriend, then he'll come back and you know hes


    the one for youu (:
    Just tell him that you still have feelings for him and your sorry for breaking up with him and you want him back.


    :)
    tell him if you and him have sex than he has to go back out with u. guys love dat (p)(u)(s)(s)(y)
    same :(

    How to have my ex back!?

    This girl was my everything and still is. We went out for about 6 months then i broke up with her, we stopped talking for about a month now we talk and have sex. But I want to be with her and she says shes not ready to have a bf right now. But she said she will deff go out with me in the future, but ive also waited for 3 months so far and shes still not ready. But now im whipped. So how can i get un whipped and have her want to be with me?How to have my ex back!?
    Yo, keep that booty call! Do your own thing and keep her on the side. What is wrong with you? This is basic 101!How to have my ex back!?
    Be blunt. Lay it on the line. if she isn't ready to be with you, then grow a pair and go out and find someone that DOES want to be with you.





    Life Is about moving forward, not backwards. If she doesn't want to move forward with you, then she shouldn't be part of your life and you should move on.
    First thing you need to do brother is to not call yourself whipped. She doesn't want a boyfriend right now, You shouldn't want her as your girlfriend either, what i mean is don't act like you gotta have her back,





    Talk to her and stuff but don't have sex with her man. I repeat control yourself and don't go for the bait. Try to show some self control.





    There are more fish in the sea don't ever forget that, but if you want this girl then don't be whipped and all over her, besides she doesn't want a bf right now and not you right now either.





    If its you that's asking her for sex, or its her asking you, it is best for you to not give in to what she always says.
    D**m dud, cant u see shes having fun with other and u at the same time. U gave her freedom and shes liking it. U know what thy say . Have ur cake and eat it too. Hell at least ur getting a booty call U should be happy :) Go out and enjoy ur self.
    dude move on dont be a pussy
    It's entirely up to her and she doesn't sound all that interested at the moment. All you can do is not push her and see what happens. Let it go for now.
    You are her booty call.

    How do i get my Ex back...?

    Okay uhm dated for 2 months, he has a girlfriend now..he's been cheating on her with me all summer and since school started..just kissing..and sending me love text..he says he wants be back but he can't find a good excuse to break up with his girl friend. so i want him for my self...how do i get him back...





    PS...NO SEX.How do i get my Ex back...?
    Well try to be flirty. Show some skin and get his attention.


    You don't need sex to get what you want. If your motivated to get him, then just go for it.How do i get my Ex back...?
    Why would you want him back? He's a liar, a cheater, and is stringing you along. What makes you think he won't cheat on you?
    well give him the chose it he really does want you back then make him break up with his girlfriend now! if he doesn't then well your on your own their
    let him go he's not worth it
    Going through a break up with your partner will be one of the hardest things you go through in your life. If you are getting





    the feeling your relationship is falling apart you must act quickly to save it.





    If you have the smallest hope that things can work out again then you can save your relationship. All hope is certainly not





    lost, but to fall back in love with your partner you have to understand the proven methods to win back ex that really work.





    Its highly likely that you are feeling sad, distraught, heart broken, angry and confused, but do not despair if he/she is





    truly the love of your life you need to try everything to make sure he/she falls in love with you again. Many people make all





    the wrong decisions and say the wrong things when they try to win back their ex.





    Psychologists around the world have been working on this age old problem for years and years now. Telling people you can save





    your relationship. And all the research has come out with some truly amazing results, they are very sure they have come up





    with proven methods to trick your ex into falling in love with you again.





    Some more advice I can give you is to never make your ex jealous (a really bad idea if you want to save your relationship)





    since all it is going to do is show him/her that you have moved on and that he/she should do the same.





    A great thing to do is to make him/her think that he/she was the best thing in your life and that nobody could compare to





    what he/she gave you. By boosting his/her confidence without seeming too needy, he/she will soon come to terms and realize





    that the two of you were great together even though you might have had some small fights or differences.





    See, the things is people do now know how save their relationship, they always want to but never act.

    What did you say to get your ex back ? Or how ? ?

    what did you say for you to get your ex back that you broke up with...?


    what should i saw to get my ex back ? :| What did you say to get your ex back ? Or how ? ?
    obviously you still like them or else you wouldn't worry about getting them back or making them interested in you.





    I say just move on honey. and dont move on to make them feel bad.What did you say to get your ex back ? Or how ? ?
    Nothing, you left them for a reason, so let them get on with their life

    How should I go about getting my ex back?

    About 3 years ago I dated this girl. It went well for a while, but I was so smitten I became clingy, and she broke it off. So I did all the things people always tell you to do after a break-up. I dated all kinds of other girls, even had a couple of one night stands.





    Eventually I stopped being bitter and me and my ex became friends again. We would talk everyonce in a while and everything was nice. But then a year ago she got mixed up in a bad relationship, and she ended up breaking contact with everyone she knew.





    Which brings us to now. She finally got herself out of the abusive relationship and is in the process of reconnecting with all of her friends that she didn't speak to during that time.





    She and I have started talking again also. I've figured out that I still have feelings for her, and that I always have. I know, that I can't just jump in, and that she needs time to heal. But how do I start laying the ground work, and also find out if she would even want to get back together?How should I go about getting my ex back?
    When someone is in the recovery stage of a relationship of any kind (even family), I personally experienced a serious degree of distrust to just about everyone... particularly the other sex if it is any sort of abuse from a relationship that is the wound to heel.





    As a result she is in a void and it would be pretty possible to benefit from this void and fill in the gap of being ';a person in her life';... or as you prefer to have it said: ';Get her back';


    But here is the tricky bit... it really doesn't go far, brings more problems in many dimensions to both sides, mostly to you.





    My personal advice would be for you to try to fill that void in with simply being someone that honestly cares for her and is not hiding anything... as she most possibly needs it a lot. As this relationship evolves and you guys get to spend some time together, eventually moments shall come up where she may remember some good times you had together, or moments that you would feel it to be just right to again honestly tell her about your feelings.


    Unfortunately the one thing you can't do is take the first step until she does... tell her how you feel and invite her (there is a significant difference between inviting and asking. Declare the difference in your words)鈥?BUT do it with an open palm where she is completely free with choice.





    Last of all.... I do not know why you guys split up in the first place. But if it was something bad and especially your fault; I would strongly advise that you concentrate on not repeating it and presenting to her a reason to believe that you have changed to a more agreeable level.





    I wish you the best of luck. I hope it all goes better in this try.How should I go about getting my ex back?
    I think you should just be honest and tell her. You don't want to push her too much.
    Take it slow, for both of your sakes. I'm sure she still has feelings for you too. Hang out together, talk on the phone, etc. Let things unfold naturally, don't push or rush it, it'll happen. Follow her lead too. If she's warm and appreciative with your advances, then continue. However, if you feel her withdrawing or becoming more distant, then give her some room, don't be too pushy or she may feel like you've never changed! Good Luck!
    she will destroy all you have left inside...dont do it...shes a succubus
    Do whatever u feel is right.


    Please answer my question:


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    sry i kno that some people hate it when u post this.
    Try to ask her if you want to get back together!
    This is tough because you already may be just a friend to her and always will be. If you were smitten for her in the beginning and she broke up with you, I don't have a lot of confidence in her that she will suddenly reciprocate the same feelings you've had (always seemed to have) for her. I'm hearing that it seems you've always been there for her, which is really admirable and she may look at you as the guy she can always depend on to be there for her. Just do that, but don't stop dating in the meantime. You don't want to get clingy again and lose her.
    Don't do anything to get her back.





    Do everything to be the man she wants to be with. Show her by your actions, and not your words, that you are a man who she can trust with her heart and soul.





    Be patient. Be kind. Be a gentleman. Do not take advantage of her emotionally or sexually.





    It will probably take a while, and you may not get back together. Just make sure that you don't compromise your integrity to win her AND make sure that she'll never have any regrets about your relationship, whatever the status it may become.
    I didn't even have to read ur ?


    The answer is forget her and move on.
    yes.Shes on the rebound...remember?


    If you truly love her just understand that she is going through a tough time right now and that your timing is off. Be there for her and listen to her feelings. I can ussure you that she will appreciate this more than you know. Let things happen naturally, if you love her she will feel it through your actions.


    When you feel that the right time has come tell her you love her and dont pressure her or guilt trip her.





    Good Luck!
    Get a life, loser.
    Be confident! Tell her how you feel. Tell her you've made a mistake letting her go. Tell her you love her.
    Be there for her, and not b/c you want to get back together, but just to be a friend she can lean on. Don't be too clingy. Remember, she is on the rebound so if she tries to make a move too soon, let her know that it is not the right time. Wait until she is completely over her relationship and completely healed to tell her how you feel for her. Just remember to be a great friend in the meantime (go out to lunch, coffee, etc, but not ';dates'; like dinner)
    Be her friend.
    show her that no matter what you'll always love her for her. don't explain the whole love thing she'll figure it out on her own weather its in a Friend way or love love way. just be a good Friend to her and she''ll appreciate your loyal friendship and who knows it just might come with benefits soon.
    obviously shes just gotten out of a bad relationship w/ somone so i would advise not to make a move for a while, be nice to her do kind stuff to her all that stuff and then after a while you should gradualy make a move to get back together w/ her. but dont be to fast, she may not want to hang out with you if you move to fast.


    Good Luck
    Forget about your ex, just move on..
    You should talk to her. Tell her the things that her Old boyfriend didn't. Give her compliments and tell her it wasn' t her fault. Basically become one of her ';girlsfriends'; to show you care about her. Then when she says she wants to start dating again then tell her how you feel,slowly. Then ask her if she thinks you guys can start over again. If she says yes make it different than before. Show her that you can be a real man and love her and protect her. Then you're golden.
    Dont it never works out trust me it will just end up being an akward subject
    always move and tap something else. it sounds like your too young to settle down, you'll never get this time back, you need to hit some hoodrats.
    1. Be there. - like you said not clingy, but making sure she's o.k. even if she doesn't know you're checking.





    2. When she needs something (groceries, car fixed, ect.) do it.- with out a word. It's not a big deal it's just what you do.





    3. Be extra compassionate - she got out of an abusive relationship so she needs you to be extra gentle.





    4. Listen - don't talk just listen. She'll want to talk, and even when she stops wait because she'll start again.





    5. Figure out what she likes and give it to her for no reason. - again no big deal you were just thinking of her and got it then move on.
    As a friend, be there for her unconditionally. When she is ready she will see and feel her heart. Things will fall into place. Give her time, but if you guys ever talk about feelings.. share your feelings with her.. so she knows where you stand. Because who knows... she might be asking herself the same question.
    Right now just be a good friend. Coming out of an abusive relationship is hard and confusing in itself, just be a good listener and friend. If it's meant to be it'll be.
    Of course, its possible that you may get together, but not likely--she sounds like she doent know what she wants.





    You need to remember why you broke apart--there were reasons and those reasons are still there--I would not jump in--just to heal all over again. You can try, but chances are, you will be dissappointed again.
    I've always said that ex's can't remain friends because one always still has feelings. They are called ';ex's'; for a reason.





    She needs you for the comfort and friendship. She wants healthy realtionships back in her life and you are one of them. But healthy doesn't always mean you're on the same page.





    I wouldn't expect to get back together. If you have the expectations that you won't, then you'll be better off. By hanging on and having that ';glimmer of hope'; that you'll get back together can be torturous for you.





    Be careful and don't expect much.
    Ask her out for a casual dinner. If it goes well, ask her out again. If she's agreeable, do it again...





    It is not necessary to define the parameters of a relationship that doesn't exist yet (or anymore). Just go out and see how the relationship develops. Or redevelops.
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  • Do I write my ex back or just ignore him?

    My ex wrote me a long email about how he wants to get back together. He has been trying to convince me to get back together with him for awhile now, but I have said no over and over again. I like someone else, and I have told him that I like someone else. He wrote me a long email that was very sweet, asking me to take him back. I know I can鈥檛 do that because I have feelings for someone else, and I know if I took him back things would go back to the way they were (we鈥檇 fight all the time, he would mooch off me and expect me to pay his bills, etc.). Should I even bother writing him back? I feel like I鈥檓 being mean to ignore his email, but I have already told him over and over that we鈥檙e not getting back together. What would you do if you were me?Do I write my ex back or just ignore him?
    He is an ex for a reason, just like you said. He also show's you that he is not willing to listen to you when you tell him ';NO';. I think the best thing for you to do is to simply respond to him one time and clearly tell him that you have already refused his offers to get back together, and that you are growing tired of his pushy behaviors.


    Remind him that you are a human and that you have rights to respect and privacy, as well as the ability to enjoy some quality of life. Then tell him if he bothers you any more that you will file a report with the police because he is harassing you as well as stalking you. Be polite in the way that you phrase everything. Print out a copy of any and all e-mails that he has sent you recently, as well as any in the future if he should send them, and also print out yours requesting him to leave you alone!Do I write my ex back or just ignore him?
    IGNORE HIM SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE!!!

    What is the best way to get back your ex-girlfriend?????

    Please tell me how to solve my problem with my ex im still inlove with her we just have a little misunderstading. Just broke up last week and I need tips to her to love me again....What is the best way to get back your ex-girlfriend?????
    Just be yourself and see what happens.

    How to become more then friends with your ex ?

    My ex broke up with me a month ago. We go to the same high school so we see each other all the time. We both agreed to be friends but we dont talk as much as we ustd to but when we do he seems very into the conversation. He even complimented me before in our last conversation. how can i get back to how it was with him when he was fully into me.How to become more then friends with your ex ?
    tell him that you want to be close friends, but if you tell him more than that he may be freaked out a bit.








    good luck though :)How to become more then friends with your ex ?
    Although I am a firm believer in the fact that if it didn't work out the first time it's not going to work out the second time, I understand not being done with the relationship. So I would have to say that your best bet is probably going to be to act like you don't want him anymore. People always want what they can't have and if you start acting like you are perfectly fine with being just friends and start showing interest in other guys it might make him want you back. It can be tricky so don't go overboard with acting like you're over him, just play it cool and don't be too pushy. Tell him you think it would be cool if you guys hung out sometimes and just be his friend. If he still has feelings for you and he sees that you're ok without him and are moving on with other people, he'll want you back.
    H0w are Y0u Country Girll,





    S0, y0ur problem is=





    ';My ex broke up with me a month ago. We go to the same high school so we see each other all the time. We both agreed to be friends but we dont talk as much as we ustd to but when we do he seems very into the conversation. He even complimented me before in our last conversation. how can i get back to how it was with him when he was fully into me.';





    Try looking this web site ; http://doiop.com/exlovertips





    Somehow the materials there assist me to resolve my questions. I Hope this helps. Good Day!

    How do i get back my ex?

    So my ex, no effence is a nerd. *Hot but she has low selfasteem*...


    Anyways i dated her and she broke up with me for some dude in alabama *Were in florida*. So she now is trying to date guys online. Anyway's she likes me cause i am pretty hot, but she won't talk to me cause i acted weird when i was dateing her.. Got any ideas..How do i get back my ex?
    Just forget about her, because she's obviously moved on and has no interest in you.How do i get back my ex?
    Well obviously your attitude is not helping. relationships are not base on looks. n if ur ex was nerdy she was smart enough to notice that you might not had any emotional feeling toward her.
    Both parties too afraid to show their feelings, I guess...





    Have a talk with her and start anew.

    Can you give me any advice on how to get my ex back?

    He broke up with me because he doesn't want to be in a relationship two months ago. he isn't doing that great so I kinda get it. Yeah, I went a little nuts on him for a while because I was frantic but I stopped. He called me the other day to hang out but I don't know what to do or say? help!Can you give me any advice on how to get my ex back?
    Your relationship seems a little unstable right now, to put it lightly. Try not to act on impulses or urges of emotions, that will only hurt you. Think slowly and carefully.Can you give me any advice on how to get my ex back?
    My best friend recently went through a pretty nasty breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





    I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





    Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





    http://www.GetBackWithYourExToday.com
    Usually it is a mistake to try to constantly call him or email/text him. This is call ';drunk dialing'; and it will push him further away.





    Men needs some space after a breakup, it takes us longer to realize that we may have made some mistakes and even longer to admit to them. So let him go stand in a corner for a while.





    Although he has contacted you, now is not the time to go running back to him. You need time to determine what went wrong in the relationship and how it will change in the future.





    It is a good sign that he called to ';hang out';, it shows he still cares for you. Just don't rush to take him up on that.





    Here is a site that has good tips on how to get back an ex. There is an excellent video on the site that will show you what your first move should be in getting your ex back.
    if you don't know what he wants, then just enjoy some time with the dude, maybe there's no agenda, perhaps he just needs a friend to help him through this rough patch. don't assume anything, but also make your intentions known. perhaps you guys can take another swing at things once he has gotten all his obstacles out of his way, but if you truly enjoy his company, then just hang out.








    good luck








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    Why would you wanna be with someone who doesn't wanna be with you? There is someone out there that will treat you better. Don't waste your time.
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  • How do you get your ex back without playing hard to get?

    we've been broken up for like 3 hours and I really miss him, i broke up with him, but i completly regrete it and he says it was my choice and i got what i deserved. What do i do, im not playing hard to get I hate doing thatHow do you get your ex back without playing hard to get?
    If you tell him you made a mistake, he's going to play hard to get. That's why he said you got what you deserve.





    The best thing for you to do is wait it out for a few days.How do you get your ex back without playing hard to get?
    It's been 3 hours? For all you know you could be back together in 3 more. Calm down and don't think about revenge tactics.





    Also, if your ex-boyfriend is saying you ';got what you deserved'; is that someone you really still want to date?





    If you don't get back together, move on at your own pace. I thought my heart was broken once but it wasn't. It just took some time to figure everything out.
    i know i feel the same way my bf broke up with me about 20 minutes ago and i rele miss him a lot :(
    There's only one way to not play hard to get.... Tell him you want him back.

    I want my ex back, were going out on saturday wit some friends, what do i do?

    I want my ex back and me %26amp; him are going out with a couple of friends on saturday, i dumped him cause of numerous reasons none to actully do with him, it was more to do wit circumstances, i know i was stupis for dumping him but at the time it seemed like the right choice, How do i get him back? i want to say somthin on saturday when were all at the fair, any ideas?, what kinda thing should i wear? I want my ex back, were going out on saturday wit some friends, what do i do?
    Girl, wear somethin you KnO you look good in... then when you first see him you gata give him that smile that says you love him/really like him (not sure how deep it was 4 youz) mixed with a little damn i miss you... kinda smile naw mean? And not too long! Not like yer awl wooped r none jus the kind that lets him kno u still like him like that r whatever then you gata let him catch you looking at him with some serious thinkin goin on lolz and he'll catch on, hE'll probly be the one to come around about it first with just them small little hints! Get it gurrl!!!I want my ex back, were going out on saturday wit some friends, what do i do?
    Hi,





    This guy has written a whole book about getting your ex back. Apparently, if you don't get your ex back within 60 days, you get your money back. Check it out:





    http://tinyurl.com/getexbak





    Good luck! Regards, Al



    Well if he is not with any one at the time wear something that lets him know what he is missing.Let him know how you feel and how sorry you are to have let him go.And you would like to know if he would want to give it another try.Let him know that if the two of you can give it another try you will not hurt him like you did the fist time.Let him know how sorry you are that you hurt him that way and if he will give it another try you will do all in your power to show him how much you love him.Good luck and hope things work out for you.
    Get deck out ask if you can talk to him pull him a side and give him a kiss

    How to get my ex back n fast?

    ok me and my boyfriend broke up about 3-4 weeks ago he broke up with my he claims he doesnt want a girlfriend anymore? OK well we are in highschool we were in a sserious relation ship and we live in a very small town and have al the same classes. Ok well i know he still has feelings for me and is getting jealous when other guys hit on my etc but how can i get him back?? and tips or advice please answer thanks guys!!!How to get my ex back n fast?
    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you want to: http://www.exbackguides.com/How to get my ex back n fast?
    I never like the ';make him jealous'; game myself. It can backfire too easily, and become a war to see who can make the other person more jealous. I think first you need to get your and his relationship to a point where you can just talk normally. You do this by just talking to him without trying to make him jealous, just get back to normal. This is important because without normalcy his head is going to be clouded with thoughts that prevent you from getting back together. It's hard to explain but the link in my source section may help.
    Coming from a man don't ignore him..if you really want him back pursue him...Trust me he wants attention. The key thing is to do it right just don't go and and say anything...gather up tips on what to do and make a plan on how to do it.
    Honestly, forget the ahole!


    any guy who dumps their gf and says they don't want anything serious is a jerk! and doesn't deserve you or your poooonani





    If you realllly want him back, ignore him. Don't call him, don't talk to him, don't even recognize his existence. If he really wants you back, he'll come back all on his own.
    Your heart wants to get your ex back, but you need to start on the right note, well-plan a strategy and carry out the planned strategy well.





    Why don't you read up the information here, and there are some free videos too:





    http://www.get-your-ex-back.info/home.ph鈥?/a>





    It is going to help you start the process.
    Well first off. Why do you want him back?? And if he said he doesn't want a girlfriend any more let him be. Let him have his space. And he only gets jealous because he still likes you. But seriously. Let him be. If he still likes you he'll come around sooner or later.
    seduce him (:


    no, seriously, have you tried talking to him


    Jake says: flirt with all the guys and make him jealous so he wants you back- problem with that is he might think your a S. L* U +


    yea;;





    good luck though, i know what its like :|

    Can i get my ex back after we both had another boy/girl?

    My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and then had a girlfriend but they broke up. to ME looks like he gets jealous when im with other guys recently.


    i like this new guy and he likes me too but i still have those always stay there feelings for my ex.


    since he had another girl and im probably gonna have another boy, if i dont get over my feelings.... is it possible i can get my exback?





    and how can i get him back? :sCan i get my ex back after we both had another boy/girl?
    A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


    There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:





    http://www.exbackguides.com/Can i get my ex back after we both had another boy/girl?
    It's almost always possible to get an ex back. As long as you know what you're doing. You should go here:





    http://how-to-get-an-ex-back.com/





    They offer free coaching on just this topic.
    Hey,





    First get with the new guy. Make that a priority. Even a few nights...but get him done.





    You need to do this for you and it will make getting back with the ex...if it happens...more in your favor.





    You two broke up...he got another girl ASAP....got in her pants. So you were not on his mind.





    Now you have a chance with another guy...if you give it up for a chance with the ex then the ex has power...he will know it. You will send a message..have me...dump me...have another girl...I'll wait...have me again. See how that can go on and on.





    Have the other guy...have TWO if you can. This way you have fun. If the ex comes looking to get back he knows that when he goes and gets another girl that you will get other guy(s). If he is truely jealous everything he thinks of doing another girl he will think of you doing other guys and stop.





    So go get BUSY.





    BC

    What is the best way to get my ex-girlfriend back?

    What is the best way to get my ex back?





    We ended the relationship because of long distance, but I'm willing to fight until the end to get her back because our love was so strong. But she is confused how can I get into her heart again and make her love me? I'm willing to do anything to get back with her! anything!What is the best way to get my ex-girlfriend back?
    tell her come back you will regret it otherwise i will get a new girl friendWhat is the best way to get my ex-girlfriend back?
    SOUNDS LIKE U SHOULDNT HAVE EVER LET HER GO IN THE FIRST PLACE..... TELL HER THAT U WANT TO GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY AND U REALIZED THAT U LOVE HER MORE THAN WHAT U THOUGHT AND U WANT HER BACK IN YOUR LIFE....
    I know the feeling(before I was married).





    Why did you end it ? How far was the distance?


    Maybe you hurted her in the past and now she don't want you back, maybe she got some one else.


    Most people make the fatal mistake to break up with their girlfriend and have regrets later.
    fight for her and assure her that it could work out between you and her. If she is still talking to you, you might stand a chance. Good Luck
    Try , try and try and thats the magic.
    Jump in front of her. Tear off your shirt. Start dancing to the song Peanut Butter Jelly Time.
    say her sorry thats the best way girls have a soft heart
    USE YOUR BRAIN instead of using your heart and feelings !!





    You will have to put a plan ........yes.. PLAN... and stick with it.
    let her know by telling her from the bottom of your soul how you feel
    i don't know man.... usually breakups happen for a reason. if she doesn't truly love you or cheats on you, then you don't truly WANT to be with her anyway.





    and sometimes even if you both love each other, it's not worth all the problems there are.

    Help with getting my ex back. GIRLS OPENION ONLY PLEASE?

    My ex girlfriend broke up with me like 3 days ago cause i dident want her talkin to other guys. i know how friends turn into friendly friends more friendly than they should be. she got mad and it seems dumb to me but i woul like to get her back we talk still but she want date me anymore its crazy cause she said she was so in love with me and then she let some little crap break us up.Help with getting my ex back. GIRLS OPENION ONLY PLEASE?
    i think you over reacted about the talking to guys thing. you should trust her if you like her as much as you say you do. and i'm sure u talk to other girls, so y cant she talk to other guys? as long as she doesn't do anything with them. and she might not like you as much as she said she did if she'd break up with you because you said u didnt want her talking to other guys, but i dont know her so i cant say that really. if you really want her back, tell her you over reacted and you want her back. if she still likes you she'll be happy. or you could make her jealous by going out with another girl. good luck getting her back!Help with getting my ex back. GIRLS OPENION ONLY PLEASE?
    i know this doesn't really help but----- girls do that a lot, like all the time
    just tell her the truth...or try to make her jealous
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  • How to get an ex back.?

    Hey all, right my ex broke up wuith me about a month and half ago and i still love her and want her back. were both 20 and have been together 2 years. She has started going out with another guy so what im doing is calling her up now and again and being ';friendly'; and having a catch up chat. then throwing in the odd meet up for a coffeee thing. Is this a good way to start getting her back~?How to get an ex back.?
    Hi





    Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





    Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





    Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





    You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





    You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





    But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





    So don't ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


    You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








    Don't Be Jealous





    Listen to me ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


    If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





    Being Flexible Is Very Important





    Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





    You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:





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    Hope it helps.How to get an ex back.?
    A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


    There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:





    http://www.exbackguides.com/
    Tread lightly. One mistake and you've lost her forever. I recommend you look here - it's free coaching about getting an ex back:





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    How can i win back my ex boyfriend, who's liking and thinking about dating this other girl?

    Ugh, i got over him. but recently he came back into my life. we talked about getting back together than he calls me two days later and tells me he like to see and maybe date this other girl, he really is crushing on. what can i do to win him back? ive told him my feelings. we've agreed to be best friends for now and im trying to deal with my feelings. but still its so hard. i really want him back.How can i win back my ex boyfriend, who's liking and thinking about dating this other girl?
    Act like yourself, be like what made him fall in love you in the first place. Maybe go hangout at the place where both you guys had your first date.


    Or if he does start going out with this other girl, well at least you guys are best friends still and your still apart of each others lives. Maybe later on in the future you guys might get back together.How can i win back my ex boyfriend, who's liking and thinking about dating this other girl?
    ';Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection...Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!





    I'll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying...





    http://www.magicofmakingup.com/?hop=leenniq28
    you attracted him once, you can do it again. DON'T make him jealous or angry by getting with other people; this could drive hime away. You need a solid game plan.





    Check out this blog - a friend of mine had a lot of success with the guide.


    http://www.how-get-ex-back.blogspot.com/

    How to get back my Ex Girlfriend?

    My girlfriend and I broke up after 19 months (We were each others first love) over two stupid lies I told and she over reacted and ended things. This was two weeks ago and we have talked about twice. She has already moved on to a new guy that she is seeing but nothing is official. I am good friends with her best friend and she told me that if we were to try it again it would be a really long time and the odds were slim. What is considered a really long time? How should I go about trying to get back with her?How to get back my Ex Girlfriend?
    hi, you try check this. maybe it help :)How to get back my Ex Girlfriend?
    A long time could be as long as you stay in denial that you screwed up. Not her. First, you need to know that trust is important for any successful relationship. Your problem is you STILL think she over reacted and insult her when you say or act like her over reaction is the cause of the break up. No one trusts a liar.





    So understand her reaction. Who want to be with someone they can not trust. .





    Examine yourself and figure out why u lied to her. Will u lie again? Why or why not? You must answer these questions for yourself first if you really want to get back ur ex girlfriend.





    When you know the real reason you lied and are sure you won't repeat the behavior talk to your ex and tell her the truth (even if it hurts) about what you did, why you did it, why you won't again and how you really feel about her.





    Dude, you will never get your ex back if accuse her of over reacting to your lies. What you expect her to do? Do not beat yourself up but remember a action (you lying twice) causes a reaction (no girlfriend).





    So act and talk like you want her back and get the reaction you want. She might not come running back to you. but you have to start somewhere and this is a good start.then again she just might. If not you have learned a valuable lesson about trust. Here is some good advice on how to get back your ex girlfriend http://www.togetanexback.com/how-to-get-ex-girlfriend-back/ Goodluck to you.;)
    Unfortunately many of us have been there.. But 19 months on a relationship is big, so you must really like each other, else you wouldn't be together that much time.


    Having been there, and not having much luck getting my boyfriend back, I also came to the internet looking for some tips on how to get him back.





    And it was the best thing I did, I was talking to someone to whom had happened the same thing, and he recommended me a very very good book that gave me the confidence to make up with him.





    Not only I got back with him, but we we're also better than never, the making up was magical!


    I highly recommend it, it was a life changer; I'm sure it could help you and many others, too! I put it on the sources (=
    Here are some cool tips to get your ex back:





    http://www.get-your-ex-back.info

    Dreams of me and the ex back together? What does it mean?

    This guy was my high school sweetheart and the times we had were the best but we had a very harsh break up. After we broke up he left town for a week and came back and he said he needed time to think and he said he wanted to work things out and then dated a good friend of mine which I knew was for sex. But shortly after in Nov. of 05 he wanted to hang out more and we did but out of no where he stopped callin and got a girl friend which at this time I was 18, he was 17 and she was 14. Comes to find out he got her pregnant. But I have had several dreams since I found out, where we'd end up meeting up and we dont get along in really life, but we'd talk and he'd end up some how or another kissing me or trying to get back with me...the most recent was he was with his girl and his son and told me he always loved me and wanted to start fresh.... he'd go in for a kiss and BAM I'd wake up....remind you.....I got married to the love of my life in Jan. I am not sure why I have this dream still!Dreams of me and the ex back together? What does it mean?
    Here's my theory





    Because you recently married, your subconscious is bringing up relevant information related to when you felt closest to the feelings you have now about being married.


    No doubt when you were in love in high school, some part of you was thinking you would marry this guy. And that's where the link is. So now that your mind is on marriage, your brain says, ';Hey, I have info on that subject, let me bring up what i got in your dreams!';


    And you dream about it because its relevant to your life right now since you had ';similar'; feelings for your high school sweetheart.


    Treat it as a memory courtesy of your subconscious and nothing more.


    I had the same thing happen to me before i got married and after being married every now and then and i know several people who had this happen too.





    best wishes and congratulations on being married!Dreams of me and the ex back together? What does it mean?
    that means even in your deepest thoughts, you are still into the idea of you and your ex together.
    It is a warning dream-it is warning you not to be a sinner.





    Lust is a sin-lust is an inordinate craving for the pleasures of the body.





    The punishment in Hell for the sin of Lust is to be smothered in fire and brimstone......Not kisses.





    For adultery-keep in mind, a married person who commits adultery shall be stoned; an unmarried person receives 100 lashes.
    You are obsessing over past events, get over it and move on.
    I believe we are all the people and symbols in our dreams.





    So, what does he represent to you? What aspect of yourself does he symbolize for you?





    My guess is that you are currently struggling with an old, destructive pattern in your life. One that you know is bad for you and had given up, but it's tempting you again.





    It may be a vice or it may be a pattern of relating to someone or a bad habit. Whatever it is, he embodies it in some way for you.





    His infidelity shows that you know it's not good for you, but it's something that maybe fills a need in you to be loved. Or calms your anxiety about not feeling loved enough. (Symbolized by his declaration of undying love for you, even though you can clearly see from his pattern of behavior that it's not true. Addictions - to substances, behaviors or people are often that way.)
    its human nature, you only want it because you cant have it. if he dates your friend just for sex and then impregnates a 14 y/o i wouldn't bother with him. and he probably started hanging out with you because he wasn't getting any and once he found someone stopped calling

    How to win back a ex-girlfriend.?

    My ex and I dated for over 2 months, but then we had a long distance relationship. The next time I saw her she got the idea that we should just be friends. I've let her know that I want to get back together. She said she lost the spark we once had. Still she is always trying to communicate with by phone or facebook. I feel I should just forget about her, but the heart tells me to keep on trying.How to win back a ex-girlfriend.?
    It sounds like you really care for this girl. For right now, just be friends with her like she asks. Don't push the relationship, go out as friends and have a good time. Show her you are always there for her no matter what.





    After a while you may want to add a little romance into the mix. There is a free report that you can get at http://www.relationshipmedic.com.





    This report will give you 101 romantic ideas that you can use to show her how much you love her. How to win back a ex-girlfriend.?
    Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking.





    My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





    I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





    Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





    http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/
    Just say three words I LOVE YOU.
    Try bribing her with a holiday
    show her that ur not the same man u were before that ur ready to take life by the ballz with her

    How to get your ex back?

    So my boyfriend of 7 and a half months just broke up with me.


    BUT he texts me like nothing has happened...like ';Hey whats up?!';


    but i haven't answered


    i really do want him back


    i am seeing him soon and i want him to want me back


    what should i do?


    say hi...dont say hi, dress hot or act sad?


    help!How to get your ex back?
    Act impartial. Don't let him know you are sad, and don't act desperate by dressing ';hot'; because that won't win him back.





    Depending on why he broke up with you, I don't see why you should even want to take him back. If he was stupid enough to dump you, is he worth your time? Worth giving a second chance?





    If I were you, I would act like it didn't even phase me. He may see it as a challenge, and if he ends up wanting to take you back, then it's up to you if you think he'll be more committed next time. He might be toying with your emotions, though, so be careful. Could also just want to be friends, so again, don't try to make him think you want him, because it could just push him farther away.How to get your ex back?
    Honestly, he broke it off with you because there was something not right about your relationship. He is probably txtg you because he misses the nookie. Is that the kind of guy you really want to be with? One that onlly wants that from you and nothing else? I know it is hard, trust me! You are both still a little fresh off the break up, so give yourselves time apart, and then in a few weeks/ months if he contacts you and you still want to see him, see him. Then, you can dress hot! Think with your head right now, not your heart. Good luck.
    Hey girlie, here is what you do. dress like you are on the cat walk, smile like you won the lottery, do not leave that house until you look fab. word on the street travels real quick.when he hears you are happy without him ,he will wonder why? he thinks you should be in bed crying over him, it will drive him mad to know what or who is keeping you happy. trust me here, if he thinks someone else is treading in his turf he will do anything to get you back. when you meet no boo hoo, no declaring undying love for him. if he wants you make him work for it, if he dont what have you got to loose. give him a run for his money and remember yourself here, all we have is our dignity dont loose it for someone who might not be worth it. good luck
    It depends why u two broke up. Just talk it over, see what u two can do to improve things next time, and make a final decision... If he doesn't want u back, at least stay friends because u never know if he's gonna' change his mind one day, but be on the look out for more boys at the same time just in case he never comes back. Don't sit in one place while staying single and wish. Don't do that...
    Just Be like Oh hey you Nothing much just living life to the fullest and having fun





    to let him know you can do it without him








    and keep talking to him and build your relationship


    and take it from there if you want him back
    i found it hard to talk to my ex again - i bought this book a few weeks ago: http://www.my-linker.com/hop/breakuppeb


    and it helped me start talking to him again. things are going ok... i'm still using the advice to work out how to eventually get back to a relationship.


    It might help you too.
    depends on why you broke up. Did something happen? or did feelings start to change. you have to figure this stuff out to know where to go from here. is it really best to get back with him? If so, just be honest with him.
    answer him back... just be like ';hey nothing much'; but dnt ask.. hbu? just let him ask the questions.. if he has something to talk about he'll tell u.. and that way u'll let him know that ur not dying to reply back by sayin omg hey wats up how are u? u know ? just be reserved.. let him ask u stuff dnt ask him anything.
    DO NOT take him back in! He's a douchebag! Why would you want the opposite of Prince Charming? Clearly, he is the opposite of that.
    dress sexy and when hes not lookin hint it u want him back by feelin on him
    Hey





    Winning back your ex boyfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.





    If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:





    1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





    Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't get your goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.





    2.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.





    3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.





    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.For a lot more tips that can help you to get your ex boyfriend back and to save your relationship check this useful and helpful blog:





    http://www.backwithextips.com/category/g鈥?/a>





    Hope it helps.
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  • How to win my ex back? PLEASE HELP!!?

    Okay so my boyfriend who i dearly loved and still do broke up with me last week. He told me that he just didnt love or like me anymore. I tried everything to get him back texting him and callling him and asking him for a second chance and that things will be diffrent and he wont get back with me. Please help asap thank so so mch!How to win my ex back? PLEASE HELP!!?
    This might not be the best advice, but I've done this before.


    Stop calling him and texting him. If he calls, let it go to voicemail.


    Date other guys. Let him miss you and get jealous. Guys like the chase.How to win my ex back? PLEASE HELP!!?
    hhm... sometimes the best thing for everyone is to just move on. Go be yourself with someone else! when ever you randomly run into your ex dont approach him. or if you do... make sure your ready to see him with someone else! my trick is to just ACCEPT WHAT YOUCAN NOT CHANGE. Itll make things go a lot smoother and you'll moveon a lot faster.





    good luck sweetie
    You Don't Wanna Sound Desperate...


    I Suqqest Leavinqq Him Alone For A Bit,Maybe He Feels Overwhelmed.


    That's What i Did About One Of My Ex's.


    answer mine please.


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    I definitley would not beg. That just turns them off more. I would really just try to move on because obviously he has made his mind up. It is not easy to break up with someone, so I doubt he would really do that if he did like you.
    First of all what'd you do to make him break up with you?


    If I don't know that, I can't help. IM me and I'll tell you what I think.
    I'm sorry sweetie, but he is not worth it. Why be with someone who does not love/like you? Please move on.


    There are other fish out there! Good luck and cheer up!
    move on hun


    he doesnt want you stop chasing him
    why are you begging someone who doesnt want you? move on!
    he doesn't want you.. get over it
    I'm sorry. He's just not that into you.

    I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?

    Me and my ex go to the same school, but i really like him now and i want to go back out with him. He hasnt got a girlfriend so i wanna get in there first - tomorrow - and ask him back out but i dont wanna embarress myself and i dont wanna go up to him and suddenly ask him. What can i do to show him i want him back?I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?
    Hi





    Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





    If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:





    1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





    Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.





    2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.





    3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.





    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





    You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex boyfriend back in this blog:





    http://www.backwithextips.com/get-him-ba鈥?/a>





    I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?
    Show nothing, just enjoy your time with him, and make him comfortable with you again. If you have any problem that cause your broke up, make sure you resolve it and made everything is clear. He will know from your body language, so enjoy your time.
    A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


    There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


    Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:





    http://www.exbackguides.com/
    Just talk to him. first ask him whats new hows life and if he doesnt mention he met someone then thats good. try hanging out more often, flirting and as you begin to hang out an flirt he will catch the hint.