How do I get my ex back?

Me and this girl dated a year ago for 5 months and i fell in love with her and still do to this day....we have been broken up since april and hooked up a little recently for a little and have talked alot in between but i have never ';got'; her back. we recently stopped talking because she started dating this new guy and now he cheated on her and we started talking again....how do i get her back fullyHow do I get my ex back?
Do what Eric P says to do. I think he's dead on with his advice.How do I get my ex back?
You might want to question why you want her back. I know you think you're in love, but don't you think your relationship would have worked out if it was meant to work out?





If you tell her that you're dating someone new and you really just want to be friends with her, she might find you more desirable. But that sort of dishonesty does not make for a healthy relationship, even if it does get her back temporarily.





A better idea would be to just start dating someone new. It's not healthy to dwell on a past relationship for too long after it's stopped working out.
i know exactaly how you feel. If you guys are talking again thats a good sign. Dont jump right in and be like '; oh i wanna out again'; or '; i like you alot and think we should go out'; cause she just got cheated on and you dont know if she likes this guy or not so make her feel better about the situation, comfort her but in a buddy or a best freind kind of way. tell her that if she ever needs someone to talk to that she can count on you. text her from time to time. make sure you smile to her everytime you see her that will comfort her and make her think that you really wanna be there for her. if things go smoothly you could ask her to hang out. if you wanna get her back fully you have to be pacient bacause she jus went threw a relationship,, it will take time for her to ';heal'; us girls are like that.... but when she really likes you back like she did before you will know.... good luck ;]
You sound like me when I fell in love the first time. in that light, let me offer you some advice from the experience of heartbreak and growing from it.





You sound young enough to not realize you still have the rest of your life ahead of you and a million other people to meet and decide to make a part of your life - including women.





Your attentions to this girl are for the moment only one way. She knows you are pursuing her and she is not ready for a commitment, especially after being the victim of a two - timer.





Learn to discipline your emotions. Accept this girl for who she is at this moment: undecided and unable to commit to you.





Re-focus your efforts on making yourself a success. education and career are what attract a girl, besides the fact of witty personality and good looks, which are a distant second and third.





Physical and emotional security are high on a girl's list of what they want in a man. You are supposed to be the rock of her life. If that's what you want, become the rock. stabilize yourself and your future.





If you do that, not only will she see that, so will every other woman looking at you. you wind up being able to CHOOSE whether or not she will be in your life or someone else you may find more equal and desirable to you.





Good Luck!












If you love her like you say you do, you need to be honest and approach her. Try not to make it awkward, you can always make it a joke if she takes it ridiculously. But be serious at first. Once you see her reaction, judge where you need to go from there.





Be careful though, don't go breaking your own heart. I don't know her, but it sounds like she might get around. (Solely my opinion) If that's true, when you ask, you're not only risking your friendship, but your heart as well. If you love her though, it's worth it.





Now, I'm a helpless romantic, so I think you need to ask her again. Maybe she thinks that she blew it earlier and is trying to make up for it with other guys. Either way, give her a chance to accept you.
Be careful at this point not to fall into the ';buddy'; trap. She is going through a tough time and that's great that you're there for her emotionally, but don't make yourself too available on that level.





Why?





Because women are naturally attracted to guys that are emotionally strong, independent and confident. If you make yourself too available she won't be that interested because she knows she can have you whenever she wants. That's why you see attractive women with tons of guys friends but they always seem to end up with the ';bad boy';.





I listed a resource below that goes over this in more detail.


Stay strong and good luck!
Just tell you how you value her friendship but you've never really gotten over her and would love to go out with her again, this gives her a window to keep you as a friend of she says no and a good chance for a yes, it may be kind of awkward to say but when said in the right moment it can mean alot
tell her your true feelings,even tho she may kno them already,tell them to her again,tell her that you meant it%26amp;still do,make her feel that she can trust you again,go with your gut,dont try to rush,just be yourself%26amp;talk to her like you normally would as if you two were together,hope it helps :)
U should tell her how u feel exactly. If someone cheated on her and u were the first person she came to, then she cares about u and loves u too. If u still love her, tell her. If she doesnt love u back, then it might be time to move on.
um heres my advice





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Do you really want a girl who will drop you for someone else bro?





I mean, if she did it once, she'll probably do it again.






well first off - tell her how you feel about her!!!


tell her the truth; that you never got over her and that you're still in love with her
keep things normal with her, then just ask her to go out with you again. if you acted normal shell consider you again cause shell see your fun and caring and sweet
Asking. Asking if she would be open to going steady again. There you go.
shotgun, duct tape and a rope