Friday, August 20, 2010

How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?

I really miss her! %26amp; our relationship. Shes all I think about. We've gone out for 2 years, then she broke up with me. This all happened 1 year ago, and i haven't crushed on anybody since. Were great friends now, but i wanna take another step closer one more time. I just need some advice to impress her, or to make her come back into my arms.How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
don't be to pushy. Start talking to her as a friend. she might start to fall for you again. don't go to fast take it slow. it may take a while but at leat u will have a foot in the door. Good luck!How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
If you two have a good friendship established since the break-up the best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with her.





It's been over a year and she's the one who left you so the ball is in her court. Just let her know how you've been feeling and why you've been feeling this way.





Then, what ever happens, respect her answer. She may have a good reason for only being friends with you and it may not have as much to with you as you thought before.
First of all, your question is very vague: You did not say your age, and the reason your ex-gf broke up with you.








But here are some universal advices that will work with ANY girl:





1- Be interesting. Get a new (or old) hobby,and be super passionate about it. Girl's love passionate guys. =)





2- Start working out (if you don't already do so). Girls love ';muscle-y'; guys. We love to feel protected.





3- Be considerate and do ';little-thoughtfull-things'; for her: when she is sick in bed, buy her a fashion magazine and bring it to her; if she has an exam buy her a chocolate chip cookie (chocolate helps the brain, and even if it doesn't the fact that you remembered she had an exam is cute), if you know she really likes a type of candy (Skittles, M%26amp;Ms, Gum, etc) and you see it, buy it for her. Girls love little thoughtfull ';gifts';, more than expensive gifts.





4- Be smart. We love guys that are smart, but never be cocky (unless you do it as a joke) or condescendent.





5- JUST BE FUN TO BE AROUND. =)








Good Luck!!
the same happened to me buddy so i know how you feel, except im a girl.


anyways my boyfriend of three years won me back by bringing me flowers to my door and telling me this '; your everything i think about, i miss you, i cant stop wishing we could be like we were and i wish you would just give me one more chance to make things right.'; anyways ive been with him ever since.


BTW girls like roses lol i hope everything goes well for you and good luck


hope i helped :)
Well, first, try to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Was it you? Was she just ready to move on?





Once you've figured that out, just try talking to her. Don't mention it randomly- that might catch her off guard. Just casually mention that you'd like to talk to her after school or something.





Once you have her in a place where you can talk, just tell her how you feel. Don't pour your heart out, just tell her what you put here. Girls like it when a guy can talk about his feelings. Trust me.





If she says she needs time or she's not ready or she just isn't interested, don't get distressed. Continue being friends with her, but also look for someone new. Don't cling to her too much. Show her you're ready to move on.





But, then again, if it does work out, YES!





:) Hop I helped.
Hi Chris


You have to feel happy about that u find it that you love her.at list you know what she likes.


(1)now don't go back to her like that you want to get her back.she will feel awkward.So just try to be her friend go out for sometime.


(2) try to bring memory about your old time with her and see her reaction.what she feels about it. if she get emotional then you have chance don't tell her right there but wait till she back to her normal status


and she avoid it then you don't have to push it. just give her some time she will back to you.


(3) this is very critical moment so don't get angry or exited. keep you self calm and keep you mind active. and you will get a way i m sure.





god bless you. best of the luck. and please let the as all know when you get back her.
start by flirting with her a lot, try to get her attention.


then tell her how you feel about her.


if you guys were truly meant to be, then she will realize it.


if she doesn't, there's plenty of fish in the see...


and i know you probably hate that saying, i do too, but sometimes you have to let go of someone you really like and realize that the person you are meant to be with is walking on this earth right now, and you have to find them.
I know this might seem a little mean but you need to get out. Go dancing or take a trip outta town with your friends. Do something to get her off your mind. Try to get rid of stuff that reminds you of her. Try to keep busy to keep her off your mind: exercise or pick up a hobby! If you really can't get her off your mind, then do something nice... show her you really do care, buy her flowers or just send her something that is a inside joke between you too. (Don't PUSH IT! Don't leave 5 messages on her voice mail it's percieved as OBSESSIVENESS!) If none of this works, get out there and show her what she's missing =]
Ask her out on a date, but nothing to extreme, lunch. spend a lot of time with her as much as you can. if she speaks up first the tell her your feelings about her. girls really look up to that when guys tell them stuff the've been showing off forever. tell her you love her. just take step by step don't go for the player type with the hand over her shoulder coughing sheeme we HATE that. good luck. :)) your lover.
first of all you have to take a look at why you broke up in the first place. whatever it was wasn't bad enough that you couldn't stay friends, so i think you could give this a chance. come on to her real casual.. like throw in something like 'what do you think would happen if we started dating again?' and see what her reaction would be. if it seems like an iffy answer but leaning towards a good thing, or if she says i don't know, that's all a go for you to really ask her to be with you again.


girls love to be complimented.


tell her you seriously havn't like anyone as much as you've liked her and it's been awhile and you still want to try to be with her.. if she says no then that's ok.. atleast you put it out there.. but now you have to watch out because when a girl knows ur still into her she'll use that, whether intentional or not.. it's just an easy thing for a girl to do.


don't let her walk on you.


you sound really sweet and if she loved you before and loves you as a friend you asking her back out no matter what the response is a safe thing to do. but if she says no.. you gotta let it go. you'll just have to move on...
Do you normally go fishing around in the trash for a sandwich you threw out the day before? No?? Why not???
Dude im in the same boat as you bt a bit different since my ex gf has a new bf but you have to fix your broken heart no girl wants a guy thts desperate and cant get anyone else shes going to want they guy she 1st met not the one who is all broken hearted best of luck to you
There is really nothing you can do, it's up to her now. If you are best friends, that's a step in the right direction. Give her time, she may come back around.
Well idk y your not 2gether but if it was your fault you can kiss that girl good bye! other wise sing her a song or something
Umm...not trying to bring you down, but I don't think this girl wants a relationship with you. She has already said lets just be friends. If you don't leave it at that, you're not going to even be friends with her!
Let it go she left you for a reason and just wants to be friends obviously. Maybe if she sees you with another girl it might bring her back to you.
It's hard man, sometimes a girl is just not into a guy anymore. But if i was you I would act real cocky like I can get any girl I want LOL. Girls are sucker for cocky guys they can't say no to them.
leave her alone.. u broke up for reason..let her live her life..what's wit u people?

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