Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How Can I Get my Ex-Back?

yes..I just broke up with my girlfriend..I need to get her back..It hurts, because my heart is broken right now...i looked on internet but I found out just list of suggestions that are useless.





plzz help meeeeHow Can I Get my Ex-Back?
well tell her that your sorry and youll make it up to her becasue you made a mistake and you wont make that againHow Can I Get my Ex-Back?
If you've lost your boyfriend recently, you're now searching the internet, praying to find the article that reveals the secret to attracting your ex back when he's moved on. Well there are a few secrets to read if you want him back in your life.





First of all we need to address your mental state at the moment. If you are moping because you've lost your boyfriend forever, you need to do your best to cut this behavior out. Even if he has moved on to a new woman and all appears lost, there is still hope, as long as you conduct yourself properly.





#1- The first thing you want to try to do is convince him that he still wants you, that he still needs you. The thing is this isn't done by calling him and pleading with him. Unless he feels totally indifferent to you, then there are lots of ways to achieve this.





#2- You want to get rid of your neediness if you're going to contact him. You want to become a friend right now, you need his guard down. If you can be empathetic with him without creating drama, then you've got a good shot. A healthy friendship that is not suffocating or needy is what you should strive for right now. This will let him consider you again if he can get rid of the negative state that he used to be in when he originally broke apart from you.





#3- Don't be super accessible. Be a little ';hard to get';. Hang out with your friends, flirt with other guys, you're not hurting anyone, and you raise your value when he realizes you're not standing there waiting for him.





#4- Get rid of your desperation! It's already been said but bears repeating. You can't appear desperate. It's the attraction KILLER. Appear willing to move on from him, even if you're not. Just trust me. Desperation will kill your chances.





#5- Keep your body language mysterious. This again relates to your desperation - when you're talking to him, don't melt into his gaze like a dog looking at a treat. You are hard to get, remember? This doesn't mean act like a cold-hearted witch, but just don't give yourself up too easily. Remember that bit about desperation?





#6- Avoid fighting at all costs. Don't bring up the negative. It won't help you now. There may be time for that in the distant future.





These are some common ways to get him back that are frequently overlooked. The secrets to getting back your man are covered in these articles from me and in greater detail in a couple of eBooks that I have read, which saved my relationship 2 years ago. I recommend you continue reading and that you find what lures back your lost love.
First,





examine why you really broke up. If it was for serious meaningful reasons, cheating, arguing, fighting, different morals or goals, etc. Maybe its the right thing, and you are lonely. You are feeling bad. Trust me time heals all wounds.





But, if you decide t hat you were being a heel, and that you made a true mistake. Then, time to suck it up and gravel. Yes. Beg.





Tell her that you are truly sorry. Send an email. And don't be condesending. A true apology. I am sorry for______ and what you did.





Then change. Yes. I am telling you as a man. Change. Learn for this experience. Think about what it was like when you lost her. And change, become a better man, so that when things go bad you remember what it was like when you lost her. Become a good husband, boyfriend.





There is a saying when the wife is happy, everyone is happy. That is true for all relationships.





Good luck.


If you don't get her back. God has another plan, it will work out.
Ask your self ';Why did I break up with her?'; Chances are you broke up with her for a logical and real reason. Whats going on now is you keep remembering the good times and none of the reason you broke it off. As much as this sucks, you just need to be strong. YOU broke up with her for a REASON. She is more than likely no good for you.





If you really want her back, just let her go. Just be nice and talk to her and see what happens.





Sorry your going through the pain.





Best of luck
Hey man,





I understand where you're coming from. The internet is full of advice that is mostly crap... if you really want to get your ex back, just look me up and I'll point you in the right direction. I've written a lot about this topic, so check it out.
the internet isn't the way to get into a girls heart. you have to show and recreate the little things that made her fall in love in the first place, only you know how she feels when she's in love :) good luck!
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


Here is a great website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
why'd you break up with her in the first place?


and I suggest talking with her, unless of course she doesn't want to to talk to you?
This blog has heaps of free articles offering advice on getting your ex back.





Hope you find something that helps.





http://www.makingupwithex.blogspot.com/
start with saying sorry, then get her something nice, then bring hurt out to eat as a friend until she start getting upset you confort her and make her fell better and so on.....
if she broke up with u then move on to late to be hanging down on someone who does not like u anymore GOD.
WHY DID YOU BREAK UP WITH HER IN THE FIRST PLACE???????
Why'd you break up with her in the first place?
grow a pair

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