How can i get my ex back?

We was together 8 years. He ended it - nothing to spark it just think he wants to see what life is like on his own (been together since we was teenagers).


Im shockingly heartbroken over him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. When i talk to him he seems like he is shrugging me off pretty well and it hurts to think he doesnt care.


What can i do to show him what he's missing? i cant live without him.How can i get my ex back?
here are a few simple suggestions to help you get back on track.





You find yourself hopelessly in love with him, but clearly do not want to lose your pride or allow him to get the best of you. Try playing a little bit ';hard to get'; for awhile. You want him to know that the loss was his and not your own.


If you think your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, keep the lines of communication open. Keep conversations, phone calls, etc. brief and to a minimum. You want to remind him how much he wants to be with you without overwhelming him and pushing him further away. Remember, he may want, and actually need more space.


If everything goes as planned, he will once again show interest in you and give you an opportunity to reminisce together. You will need to focus on all the good memories you shared, rather than the bad or negative experiences. Dwelling on the negative experiences will only stir up hurt feelings and work against you.


If you do not notice any response by your ex boyfriend to your gradual advances, pull back and re- assess the situation. It could be that he just isn't interested in a relationship with you right now, or maybe he really does need space. In that case, you should give it to him. If he does seem to be interested in your advances and is warming up to you again, then definitely continue to gradually rebuild your relationship.


If your ex is showing a definite desire to rebuild your relationship, it could be healthy to let him know how you feel and try opening your heart to him again. At all cost, avoid looking needy or desperate. However, if he just doesn't seem to be moving in the direction you had hoped, it would make more sense to take a step back and let things happen at a slower pace.How can i get my ex back?
The more you try to get him back the more he will move away from you.Give him time and let him decide what he wants next but when he makes his mind up u might not be available anymore. You know what he is loosing...but you cant force him to be with you now if he doesn't want to be.Why u want to get him back if he left u? Why would you buy a pink shirt if you don't like that colour? Get on with your life, change you hairdo, treat yourself, go out and wait if he comes back (there is a possibility that new man can appear.
There may have been something that caused him to want to see someone else. The relationship may have gotten boring. Or maybe you weren't adding value to the relationship.





There are a few things you can do to get him back. He loves you every bit as much as you love him. I know this because of the amount of time you two were together.





I read an article that will show you exactly what you should. I'll leave a link below for you to read.





I hope this helps...
If you were together for 8 years, I'm sure he still cares. Maybe he just needs a little time and space.





One way or the other, you need to put a plan together for getting your ex back. There are a lot of different ways you can go about it but I'd recommend reading the 7 Surefire Ways to Get Your Ex Back as a good starting point.
Please be patient and try to go out with your other friends. What will happen will happen. It could be that you going your own way will make him well and truly make up his mind. Please don't worry. Even though it is hard for you to see, you are a young person and if this does not work, there is some reason, some better life for you ahead.
Sometimes well i know from experience people end relationships because people change, is this the case with you ?


if so then think how you was 8 years ago if you want him bad enough and he does'nt like the way you are now then well stop changing and go for him !
think about the reasons y he broke up with you in this case he wants 2 see wat life is like on his own


u shud talk 2 him . ask him how duz he feel on his own! if he says


good then thats just him if he says bad or along the lines of bad. thats ur chance to say that maybe he would feel better with you again
I LOVE mark's idea lol but I think you need to try and make him a bit jealous show him that life withou you is rubbish then accept his apology and take him back
Tell him your pregnant
tell him u still have feelings for him
1 - there will be no way he is shrugging you off pretty quickly, ater all you were a big big big part of his life for a very long time.


2 - i believe if you should be back together you will be, whetever happens, happens for a reason


3 - if he is going to come back to you, he will do, off his own accord, nothing will change his mind, only him. and do you really want to be with him knowing you made him come back? and he hasnt actually come back because thats what he really really wants?


4 - if you were to do anything to get him back they should be very subtle little things in order to make him think about you and think about what he is missing, but do not put him under pressure because men hate that. You could send him a text every once in a while, not often, once every 2 weeks or so, a short text like hey, hows you? you dont want to be goin all out and sending gifts to his house or anything soppy or OTT. Once you can see the friendship rekindling, be intouch more often, analyse how he acts with you. DONT bring up anything to do with the past or about relationships. that wont help if he has his mind stuck on not being with you.


you just need to show him that you are intersted in still being in touch, civilly and maturely about general stuff. ask him how works going or any problems you know hes had in the past, for example, if he had something bad going on at work a few days/weeks a go and you dont know if it sorted, just ask how things are at work now? and you hope he ok.


Whe things seem to progress (leave it a while though) ask if he fancies meeting for a coffee and a friendly chat.....


So basicaly let things start all over again as if you were first dating. This is the only way he will ever see what hes missing.


Either do that or totally 100% leave him alone.cos remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. play hard to get cos it ALWAYS works, no matter how long you have to play hard to get for. Dont contact him. He WILL worry and wonder why your not begging for him back and he will be scared your out of his life for good, then come running back. etc. DONT tell him youve been playing hard to get though.


I think you will be best off playing hard to get for a while till you can see some change, then send him the odd text or something. but dont reply to him straight away and dont reply everytime, you still need to play hard to get even when your back in touch.


Trust me he will worry. Wouldnt you???