my ex and i broke up the other night, this is the second time we have. he says he just doesn't want a relationship anymore but i refuse to let go, i'm willing to do whatever to get him back. prom is coming up and i would really want to go with him. what can i do? i asked him to prom as friends already but he said he doesn't think he'd have a good time. pleasepleasplease help me get him back, please!How to get my ex back?
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There is a reason why he broke up with you or you broke up with him. if you still want to go to prom with him, make him an offer he can't refuse ... you know what I mean! Know that after he gets waht he wants, he will still break up with you. He wants to head to college unattached because then he can do what he wants while in college. He knows you will always be there and will take him back after he has done what he wants to do in college. Don't cheapen yourself with a loser like that.
You can't make someone care about you or want to be with you. aside from blowing him all the time you can't really make a guy stay where they don't wanna be
Friday, August 20, 2010
How can i get my ex back?
We was together 8 years. He ended it - nothing to spark it just think he wants to see what life is like on his own (been together since we was teenagers).
Im shockingly heartbroken over him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. When i talk to him he seems like he is shrugging me off pretty well and it hurts to think he doesnt care.
What can i do to show him what he's missing? i cant live without him.How can i get my ex back?
here are a few simple suggestions to help you get back on track.
You find yourself hopelessly in love with him, but clearly do not want to lose your pride or allow him to get the best of you. Try playing a little bit ';hard to get'; for awhile. You want him to know that the loss was his and not your own.
If you think your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, keep the lines of communication open. Keep conversations, phone calls, etc. brief and to a minimum. You want to remind him how much he wants to be with you without overwhelming him and pushing him further away. Remember, he may want, and actually need more space.
If everything goes as planned, he will once again show interest in you and give you an opportunity to reminisce together. You will need to focus on all the good memories you shared, rather than the bad or negative experiences. Dwelling on the negative experiences will only stir up hurt feelings and work against you.
If you do not notice any response by your ex boyfriend to your gradual advances, pull back and re- assess the situation. It could be that he just isn't interested in a relationship with you right now, or maybe he really does need space. In that case, you should give it to him. If he does seem to be interested in your advances and is warming up to you again, then definitely continue to gradually rebuild your relationship.
If your ex is showing a definite desire to rebuild your relationship, it could be healthy to let him know how you feel and try opening your heart to him again. At all cost, avoid looking needy or desperate. However, if he just doesn't seem to be moving in the direction you had hoped, it would make more sense to take a step back and let things happen at a slower pace.How can i get my ex back?
The more you try to get him back the more he will move away from you.Give him time and let him decide what he wants next but when he makes his mind up u might not be available anymore. You know what he is loosing...but you cant force him to be with you now if he doesn't want to be.Why u want to get him back if he left u? Why would you buy a pink shirt if you don't like that colour? Get on with your life, change you hairdo, treat yourself, go out and wait if he comes back (there is a possibility that new man can appear.
There may have been something that caused him to want to see someone else. The relationship may have gotten boring. Or maybe you weren't adding value to the relationship.
There are a few things you can do to get him back. He loves you every bit as much as you love him. I know this because of the amount of time you two were together.
I read an article that will show you exactly what you should. I'll leave a link below for you to read.
I hope this helps...
If you were together for 8 years, I'm sure he still cares. Maybe he just needs a little time and space.
One way or the other, you need to put a plan together for getting your ex back. There are a lot of different ways you can go about it but I'd recommend reading the 7 Surefire Ways to Get Your Ex Back as a good starting point.
Please be patient and try to go out with your other friends. What will happen will happen. It could be that you going your own way will make him well and truly make up his mind. Please don't worry. Even though it is hard for you to see, you are a young person and if this does not work, there is some reason, some better life for you ahead.
Sometimes well i know from experience people end relationships because people change, is this the case with you ?
if so then think how you was 8 years ago if you want him bad enough and he does'nt like the way you are now then well stop changing and go for him !
think about the reasons y he broke up with you in this case he wants 2 see wat life is like on his own
u shud talk 2 him . ask him how duz he feel on his own! if he says
good then thats just him if he says bad or along the lines of bad. thats ur chance to say that maybe he would feel better with you again
I LOVE mark's idea lol but I think you need to try and make him a bit jealous show him that life withou you is rubbish then accept his apology and take him back
Tell him your pregnant
tell him u still have feelings for him
1 - there will be no way he is shrugging you off pretty quickly, ater all you were a big big big part of his life for a very long time.
2 - i believe if you should be back together you will be, whetever happens, happens for a reason
3 - if he is going to come back to you, he will do, off his own accord, nothing will change his mind, only him. and do you really want to be with him knowing you made him come back? and he hasnt actually come back because thats what he really really wants?
4 - if you were to do anything to get him back they should be very subtle little things in order to make him think about you and think about what he is missing, but do not put him under pressure because men hate that. You could send him a text every once in a while, not often, once every 2 weeks or so, a short text like hey, hows you? you dont want to be goin all out and sending gifts to his house or anything soppy or OTT. Once you can see the friendship rekindling, be intouch more often, analyse how he acts with you. DONT bring up anything to do with the past or about relationships. that wont help if he has his mind stuck on not being with you.
you just need to show him that you are intersted in still being in touch, civilly and maturely about general stuff. ask him how works going or any problems you know hes had in the past, for example, if he had something bad going on at work a few days/weeks a go and you dont know if it sorted, just ask how things are at work now? and you hope he ok.
Whe things seem to progress (leave it a while though) ask if he fancies meeting for a coffee and a friendly chat.....
So basicaly let things start all over again as if you were first dating. This is the only way he will ever see what hes missing.
Either do that or totally 100% leave him alone.cos remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. play hard to get cos it ALWAYS works, no matter how long you have to play hard to get for. Dont contact him. He WILL worry and wonder why your not begging for him back and he will be scared your out of his life for good, then come running back. etc. DONT tell him youve been playing hard to get though.
I think you will be best off playing hard to get for a while till you can see some change, then send him the odd text or something. but dont reply to him straight away and dont reply everytime, you still need to play hard to get even when your back in touch.
Trust me he will worry. Wouldnt you???
Im shockingly heartbroken over him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. When i talk to him he seems like he is shrugging me off pretty well and it hurts to think he doesnt care.
What can i do to show him what he's missing? i cant live without him.How can i get my ex back?
here are a few simple suggestions to help you get back on track.
You find yourself hopelessly in love with him, but clearly do not want to lose your pride or allow him to get the best of you. Try playing a little bit ';hard to get'; for awhile. You want him to know that the loss was his and not your own.
If you think your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, keep the lines of communication open. Keep conversations, phone calls, etc. brief and to a minimum. You want to remind him how much he wants to be with you without overwhelming him and pushing him further away. Remember, he may want, and actually need more space.
If everything goes as planned, he will once again show interest in you and give you an opportunity to reminisce together. You will need to focus on all the good memories you shared, rather than the bad or negative experiences. Dwelling on the negative experiences will only stir up hurt feelings and work against you.
If you do not notice any response by your ex boyfriend to your gradual advances, pull back and re- assess the situation. It could be that he just isn't interested in a relationship with you right now, or maybe he really does need space. In that case, you should give it to him. If he does seem to be interested in your advances and is warming up to you again, then definitely continue to gradually rebuild your relationship.
If your ex is showing a definite desire to rebuild your relationship, it could be healthy to let him know how you feel and try opening your heart to him again. At all cost, avoid looking needy or desperate. However, if he just doesn't seem to be moving in the direction you had hoped, it would make more sense to take a step back and let things happen at a slower pace.How can i get my ex back?
The more you try to get him back the more he will move away from you.Give him time and let him decide what he wants next but when he makes his mind up u might not be available anymore. You know what he is loosing...but you cant force him to be with you now if he doesn't want to be.Why u want to get him back if he left u? Why would you buy a pink shirt if you don't like that colour? Get on with your life, change you hairdo, treat yourself, go out and wait if he comes back (there is a possibility that new man can appear.
There may have been something that caused him to want to see someone else. The relationship may have gotten boring. Or maybe you weren't adding value to the relationship.
There are a few things you can do to get him back. He loves you every bit as much as you love him. I know this because of the amount of time you two were together.
I read an article that will show you exactly what you should. I'll leave a link below for you to read.
I hope this helps...
If you were together for 8 years, I'm sure he still cares. Maybe he just needs a little time and space.
One way or the other, you need to put a plan together for getting your ex back. There are a lot of different ways you can go about it but I'd recommend reading the 7 Surefire Ways to Get Your Ex Back as a good starting point.
Please be patient and try to go out with your other friends. What will happen will happen. It could be that you going your own way will make him well and truly make up his mind. Please don't worry. Even though it is hard for you to see, you are a young person and if this does not work, there is some reason, some better life for you ahead.
Sometimes well i know from experience people end relationships because people change, is this the case with you ?
if so then think how you was 8 years ago if you want him bad enough and he does'nt like the way you are now then well stop changing and go for him !
think about the reasons y he broke up with you in this case he wants 2 see wat life is like on his own
u shud talk 2 him . ask him how duz he feel on his own! if he says
good then thats just him if he says bad or along the lines of bad. thats ur chance to say that maybe he would feel better with you again
I LOVE mark's idea lol but I think you need to try and make him a bit jealous show him that life withou you is rubbish then accept his apology and take him back
Tell him your pregnant
tell him u still have feelings for him
1 - there will be no way he is shrugging you off pretty quickly, ater all you were a big big big part of his life for a very long time.
2 - i believe if you should be back together you will be, whetever happens, happens for a reason
3 - if he is going to come back to you, he will do, off his own accord, nothing will change his mind, only him. and do you really want to be with him knowing you made him come back? and he hasnt actually come back because thats what he really really wants?
4 - if you were to do anything to get him back they should be very subtle little things in order to make him think about you and think about what he is missing, but do not put him under pressure because men hate that. You could send him a text every once in a while, not often, once every 2 weeks or so, a short text like hey, hows you? you dont want to be goin all out and sending gifts to his house or anything soppy or OTT. Once you can see the friendship rekindling, be intouch more often, analyse how he acts with you. DONT bring up anything to do with the past or about relationships. that wont help if he has his mind stuck on not being with you.
you just need to show him that you are intersted in still being in touch, civilly and maturely about general stuff. ask him how works going or any problems you know hes had in the past, for example, if he had something bad going on at work a few days/weeks a go and you dont know if it sorted, just ask how things are at work now? and you hope he ok.
Whe things seem to progress (leave it a while though) ask if he fancies meeting for a coffee and a friendly chat.....
So basicaly let things start all over again as if you were first dating. This is the only way he will ever see what hes missing.
Either do that or totally 100% leave him alone.cos remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. play hard to get cos it ALWAYS works, no matter how long you have to play hard to get for. Dont contact him. He WILL worry and wonder why your not begging for him back and he will be scared your out of his life for good, then come running back. etc. DONT tell him youve been playing hard to get though.
I think you will be best off playing hard to get for a while till you can see some change, then send him the odd text or something. but dont reply to him straight away and dont reply everytime, you still need to play hard to get even when your back in touch.
Trust me he will worry. Wouldnt you???
How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
I really miss her! %26amp; our relationship. Shes all I think about. We've gone out for 2 years, then she broke up with me. This all happened 1 year ago, and i haven't crushed on anybody since. Were great friends now, but i wanna take another step closer one more time. I just need some advice to impress her, or to make her come back into my arms.How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
don't be to pushy. Start talking to her as a friend. she might start to fall for you again. don't go to fast take it slow. it may take a while but at leat u will have a foot in the door. Good luck!How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
If you two have a good friendship established since the break-up the best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with her.
It's been over a year and she's the one who left you so the ball is in her court. Just let her know how you've been feeling and why you've been feeling this way.
Then, what ever happens, respect her answer. She may have a good reason for only being friends with you and it may not have as much to with you as you thought before.
First of all, your question is very vague: You did not say your age, and the reason your ex-gf broke up with you.
But here are some universal advices that will work with ANY girl:
1- Be interesting. Get a new (or old) hobby,and be super passionate about it. Girl's love passionate guys. =)
2- Start working out (if you don't already do so). Girls love ';muscle-y'; guys. We love to feel protected.
3- Be considerate and do ';little-thoughtfull-things'; for her: when she is sick in bed, buy her a fashion magazine and bring it to her; if she has an exam buy her a chocolate chip cookie (chocolate helps the brain, and even if it doesn't the fact that you remembered she had an exam is cute), if you know she really likes a type of candy (Skittles, M%26amp;Ms, Gum, etc) and you see it, buy it for her. Girls love little thoughtfull ';gifts';, more than expensive gifts.
4- Be smart. We love guys that are smart, but never be cocky (unless you do it as a joke) or condescendent.
5- JUST BE FUN TO BE AROUND. =)
Good Luck!!
the same happened to me buddy so i know how you feel, except im a girl.
anyways my boyfriend of three years won me back by bringing me flowers to my door and telling me this '; your everything i think about, i miss you, i cant stop wishing we could be like we were and i wish you would just give me one more chance to make things right.'; anyways ive been with him ever since.
BTW girls like roses lol i hope everything goes well for you and good luck
hope i helped :)
Well, first, try to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Was it you? Was she just ready to move on?
Once you've figured that out, just try talking to her. Don't mention it randomly- that might catch her off guard. Just casually mention that you'd like to talk to her after school or something.
Once you have her in a place where you can talk, just tell her how you feel. Don't pour your heart out, just tell her what you put here. Girls like it when a guy can talk about his feelings. Trust me.
If she says she needs time or she's not ready or she just isn't interested, don't get distressed. Continue being friends with her, but also look for someone new. Don't cling to her too much. Show her you're ready to move on.
But, then again, if it does work out, YES!
:) Hop I helped.
Hi Chris
You have to feel happy about that u find it that you love her.at list you know what she likes.
(1)now don't go back to her like that you want to get her back.she will feel awkward.So just try to be her friend go out for sometime.
(2) try to bring memory about your old time with her and see her reaction.what she feels about it. if she get emotional then you have chance don't tell her right there but wait till she back to her normal status
and she avoid it then you don't have to push it. just give her some time she will back to you.
(3) this is very critical moment so don't get angry or exited. keep you self calm and keep you mind active. and you will get a way i m sure.
god bless you. best of the luck. and please let the as all know when you get back her.
start by flirting with her a lot, try to get her attention.
then tell her how you feel about her.
if you guys were truly meant to be, then she will realize it.
if she doesn't, there's plenty of fish in the see...
and i know you probably hate that saying, i do too, but sometimes you have to let go of someone you really like and realize that the person you are meant to be with is walking on this earth right now, and you have to find them.
I know this might seem a little mean but you need to get out. Go dancing or take a trip outta town with your friends. Do something to get her off your mind. Try to get rid of stuff that reminds you of her. Try to keep busy to keep her off your mind: exercise or pick up a hobby! If you really can't get her off your mind, then do something nice... show her you really do care, buy her flowers or just send her something that is a inside joke between you too. (Don't PUSH IT! Don't leave 5 messages on her voice mail it's percieved as OBSESSIVENESS!) If none of this works, get out there and show her what she's missing =]
Ask her out on a date, but nothing to extreme, lunch. spend a lot of time with her as much as you can. if she speaks up first the tell her your feelings about her. girls really look up to that when guys tell them stuff the've been showing off forever. tell her you love her. just take step by step don't go for the player type with the hand over her shoulder coughing sheeme we HATE that. good luck. :)) your lover.
first of all you have to take a look at why you broke up in the first place. whatever it was wasn't bad enough that you couldn't stay friends, so i think you could give this a chance. come on to her real casual.. like throw in something like 'what do you think would happen if we started dating again?' and see what her reaction would be. if it seems like an iffy answer but leaning towards a good thing, or if she says i don't know, that's all a go for you to really ask her to be with you again.
girls love to be complimented.
tell her you seriously havn't like anyone as much as you've liked her and it's been awhile and you still want to try to be with her.. if she says no then that's ok.. atleast you put it out there.. but now you have to watch out because when a girl knows ur still into her she'll use that, whether intentional or not.. it's just an easy thing for a girl to do.
don't let her walk on you.
you sound really sweet and if she loved you before and loves you as a friend you asking her back out no matter what the response is a safe thing to do. but if she says no.. you gotta let it go. you'll just have to move on...
Do you normally go fishing around in the trash for a sandwich you threw out the day before? No?? Why not???
Dude im in the same boat as you bt a bit different since my ex gf has a new bf but you have to fix your broken heart no girl wants a guy thts desperate and cant get anyone else shes going to want they guy she 1st met not the one who is all broken hearted best of luck to you
There is really nothing you can do, it's up to her now. If you are best friends, that's a step in the right direction. Give her time, she may come back around.
Well idk y your not 2gether but if it was your fault you can kiss that girl good bye! other wise sing her a song or something
Umm...not trying to bring you down, but I don't think this girl wants a relationship with you. She has already said lets just be friends. If you don't leave it at that, you're not going to even be friends with her!
Let it go she left you for a reason and just wants to be friends obviously. Maybe if she sees you with another girl it might bring her back to you.
It's hard man, sometimes a girl is just not into a guy anymore. But if i was you I would act real cocky like I can get any girl I want LOL. Girls are sucker for cocky guys they can't say no to them.
leave her alone.. u broke up for reason..let her live her life..what's wit u people?
don't be to pushy. Start talking to her as a friend. she might start to fall for you again. don't go to fast take it slow. it may take a while but at leat u will have a foot in the door. Good luck!How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
If you two have a good friendship established since the break-up the best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with her.
It's been over a year and she's the one who left you so the ball is in her court. Just let her know how you've been feeling and why you've been feeling this way.
Then, what ever happens, respect her answer. She may have a good reason for only being friends with you and it may not have as much to with you as you thought before.
First of all, your question is very vague: You did not say your age, and the reason your ex-gf broke up with you.
But here are some universal advices that will work with ANY girl:
1- Be interesting. Get a new (or old) hobby,and be super passionate about it. Girl's love passionate guys. =)
2- Start working out (if you don't already do so). Girls love ';muscle-y'; guys. We love to feel protected.
3- Be considerate and do ';little-thoughtfull-things'; for her: when she is sick in bed, buy her a fashion magazine and bring it to her; if she has an exam buy her a chocolate chip cookie (chocolate helps the brain, and even if it doesn't the fact that you remembered she had an exam is cute), if you know she really likes a type of candy (Skittles, M%26amp;Ms, Gum, etc) and you see it, buy it for her. Girls love little thoughtfull ';gifts';, more than expensive gifts.
4- Be smart. We love guys that are smart, but never be cocky (unless you do it as a joke) or condescendent.
5- JUST BE FUN TO BE AROUND. =)
Good Luck!!
the same happened to me buddy so i know how you feel, except im a girl.
anyways my boyfriend of three years won me back by bringing me flowers to my door and telling me this '; your everything i think about, i miss you, i cant stop wishing we could be like we were and i wish you would just give me one more chance to make things right.'; anyways ive been with him ever since.
BTW girls like roses lol i hope everything goes well for you and good luck
hope i helped :)
Well, first, try to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Was it you? Was she just ready to move on?
Once you've figured that out, just try talking to her. Don't mention it randomly- that might catch her off guard. Just casually mention that you'd like to talk to her after school or something.
Once you have her in a place where you can talk, just tell her how you feel. Don't pour your heart out, just tell her what you put here. Girls like it when a guy can talk about his feelings. Trust me.
If she says she needs time or she's not ready or she just isn't interested, don't get distressed. Continue being friends with her, but also look for someone new. Don't cling to her too much. Show her you're ready to move on.
But, then again, if it does work out, YES!
:) Hop I helped.
Hi Chris
You have to feel happy about that u find it that you love her.at list you know what she likes.
(1)now don't go back to her like that you want to get her back.she will feel awkward.So just try to be her friend go out for sometime.
(2) try to bring memory about your old time with her and see her reaction.what she feels about it. if she get emotional then you have chance don't tell her right there but wait till she back to her normal status
and she avoid it then you don't have to push it. just give her some time she will back to you.
(3) this is very critical moment so don't get angry or exited. keep you self calm and keep you mind active. and you will get a way i m sure.
god bless you. best of the luck. and please let the as all know when you get back her.
start by flirting with her a lot, try to get her attention.
then tell her how you feel about her.
if you guys were truly meant to be, then she will realize it.
if she doesn't, there's plenty of fish in the see...
and i know you probably hate that saying, i do too, but sometimes you have to let go of someone you really like and realize that the person you are meant to be with is walking on this earth right now, and you have to find them.
I know this might seem a little mean but you need to get out. Go dancing or take a trip outta town with your friends. Do something to get her off your mind. Try to get rid of stuff that reminds you of her. Try to keep busy to keep her off your mind: exercise or pick up a hobby! If you really can't get her off your mind, then do something nice... show her you really do care, buy her flowers or just send her something that is a inside joke between you too. (Don't PUSH IT! Don't leave 5 messages on her voice mail it's percieved as OBSESSIVENESS!) If none of this works, get out there and show her what she's missing =]
Ask her out on a date, but nothing to extreme, lunch. spend a lot of time with her as much as you can. if she speaks up first the tell her your feelings about her. girls really look up to that when guys tell them stuff the've been showing off forever. tell her you love her. just take step by step don't go for the player type with the hand over her shoulder coughing sheeme we HATE that. good luck. :)) your lover.
first of all you have to take a look at why you broke up in the first place. whatever it was wasn't bad enough that you couldn't stay friends, so i think you could give this a chance. come on to her real casual.. like throw in something like 'what do you think would happen if we started dating again?' and see what her reaction would be. if it seems like an iffy answer but leaning towards a good thing, or if she says i don't know, that's all a go for you to really ask her to be with you again.
girls love to be complimented.
tell her you seriously havn't like anyone as much as you've liked her and it's been awhile and you still want to try to be with her.. if she says no then that's ok.. atleast you put it out there.. but now you have to watch out because when a girl knows ur still into her she'll use that, whether intentional or not.. it's just an easy thing for a girl to do.
don't let her walk on you.
you sound really sweet and if she loved you before and loves you as a friend you asking her back out no matter what the response is a safe thing to do. but if she says no.. you gotta let it go. you'll just have to move on...
Do you normally go fishing around in the trash for a sandwich you threw out the day before? No?? Why not???
Dude im in the same boat as you bt a bit different since my ex gf has a new bf but you have to fix your broken heart no girl wants a guy thts desperate and cant get anyone else shes going to want they guy she 1st met not the one who is all broken hearted best of luck to you
There is really nothing you can do, it's up to her now. If you are best friends, that's a step in the right direction. Give her time, she may come back around.
Well idk y your not 2gether but if it was your fault you can kiss that girl good bye! other wise sing her a song or something
Umm...not trying to bring you down, but I don't think this girl wants a relationship with you. She has already said lets just be friends. If you don't leave it at that, you're not going to even be friends with her!
Let it go she left you for a reason and just wants to be friends obviously. Maybe if she sees you with another girl it might bring her back to you.
It's hard man, sometimes a girl is just not into a guy anymore. But if i was you I would act real cocky like I can get any girl I want LOL. Girls are sucker for cocky guys they can't say no to them.
leave her alone.. u broke up for reason..let her live her life..what's wit u people?
I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?
Me and my ex go to the same school, but i really like him now and i want to go back out with him. He hasnt got a girlfriend so i wanna get in there first - tomorrow - and ask him back out but i dont wanna embarress myself and i dont wanna go up to him and suddenly ask him. What can i do to show him i want him back?I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?
Hi
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).
You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex boyfriend back in this blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/get-him-ba鈥?/a>
I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?
Show nothing, just enjoy your time with him, and make him comfortable with you again. If you have any problem that cause your broke up, make sure you resolve it and made everything is clear. He will know from your body language, so enjoy your time.
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
Just talk to him. first ask him whats new hows life and if he doesnt mention he met someone then thats good. try hanging out more often, flirting and as you begin to hang out an flirt he will catch the hint.love myspace car loan
Hi
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).
You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex boyfriend back in this blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/get-him-ba鈥?/a>
I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!I want my ex back. Advise Pease. How can I get him back?
Show nothing, just enjoy your time with him, and make him comfortable with you again. If you have any problem that cause your broke up, make sure you resolve it and made everything is clear. He will know from your body language, so enjoy your time.
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
http://www.exbackguides.com/
Just talk to him. first ask him whats new hows life and if he doesnt mention he met someone then thats good. try hanging out more often, flirting and as you begin to hang out an flirt he will catch the hint.
How to get my ex back?
my ex and i broke up the other night, this is the second time we have. he says he just doesn't want a relationship anymore but i refuse to let go, i'm willing to do whatever to get him back. prom is coming up and i would really want to go with him. what can i do? i asked him to prom as friends already but he said he doesn't think he'd have a good time. pleasepleasplease help me get him back, please!How to get my ex back?
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You can't make someone care about you or want to be with you. aside from blowing him all the time you can't really make a guy stay where they don't wanna be
There is a reason why he broke up with you or you broke up with him. if you still want to go to prom with him, make him an offer he can't refuse ... you know what I mean! Know that after he gets waht he wants, he will still break up with you. He wants to head to college unattached because then he can do what he wants while in college. He knows you will always be there and will take him back after he has done what he wants to do in college. Don't cheapen yourself with a loser like that.
Get him back. I used this system myself. It works.
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You can't make someone care about you or want to be with you. aside from blowing him all the time you can't really make a guy stay where they don't wanna be
There is a reason why he broke up with you or you broke up with him. if you still want to go to prom with him, make him an offer he can't refuse ... you know what I mean! Know that after he gets waht he wants, he will still break up with you. He wants to head to college unattached because then he can do what he wants while in college. He knows you will always be there and will take him back after he has done what he wants to do in college. Don't cheapen yourself with a loser like that.
How can i get my ex back?
We was together 8 years. He ended it - nothing to spark it just think he wants to see what life is like on his own (been together since we was teenagers).
Im shockingly heartbroken over him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. When i talk to him he seems like he is shrugging me off pretty well and it hurts to think he doesnt care.
What can i do to show him what he's missing? i cant live without him.How can i get my ex back?
here are a few simple suggestions to help you get back on track.
You find yourself hopelessly in love with him, but clearly do not want to lose your pride or allow him to get the best of you. Try playing a little bit ';hard to get'; for awhile. You want him to know that the loss was his and not your own.
If you think your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, keep the lines of communication open. Keep conversations, phone calls, etc. brief and to a minimum. You want to remind him how much he wants to be with you without overwhelming him and pushing him further away. Remember, he may want, and actually need more space.
If everything goes as planned, he will once again show interest in you and give you an opportunity to reminisce together. You will need to focus on all the good memories you shared, rather than the bad or negative experiences. Dwelling on the negative experiences will only stir up hurt feelings and work against you.
If you do not notice any response by your ex boyfriend to your gradual advances, pull back and re- assess the situation. It could be that he just isn't interested in a relationship with you right now, or maybe he really does need space. In that case, you should give it to him. If he does seem to be interested in your advances and is warming up to you again, then definitely continue to gradually rebuild your relationship.
If your ex is showing a definite desire to rebuild your relationship, it could be healthy to let him know how you feel and try opening your heart to him again. At all cost, avoid looking needy or desperate. However, if he just doesn't seem to be moving in the direction you had hoped, it would make more sense to take a step back and let things happen at a slower pace.How can i get my ex back?
The more you try to get him back the more he will move away from you.Give him time and let him decide what he wants next but when he makes his mind up u might not be available anymore. You know what he is loosing...but you cant force him to be with you now if he doesn't want to be.Why u want to get him back if he left u? Why would you buy a pink shirt if you don't like that colour? Get on with your life, change you hairdo, treat yourself, go out and wait if he comes back (there is a possibility that new man can appear.
There may have been something that caused him to want to see someone else. The relationship may have gotten boring. Or maybe you weren't adding value to the relationship.
There are a few things you can do to get him back. He loves you every bit as much as you love him. I know this because of the amount of time you two were together.
I read an article that will show you exactly what you should. I'll leave a link below for you to read.
I hope this helps...
If you were together for 8 years, I'm sure he still cares. Maybe he just needs a little time and space.
One way or the other, you need to put a plan together for getting your ex back. There are a lot of different ways you can go about it but I'd recommend reading the 7 Surefire Ways to Get Your Ex Back as a good starting point.
Please be patient and try to go out with your other friends. What will happen will happen. It could be that you going your own way will make him well and truly make up his mind. Please don't worry. Even though it is hard for you to see, you are a young person and if this does not work, there is some reason, some better life for you ahead.
Sometimes well i know from experience people end relationships because people change, is this the case with you ?
if so then think how you was 8 years ago if you want him bad enough and he does'nt like the way you are now then well stop changing and go for him !
think about the reasons y he broke up with you in this case he wants 2 see wat life is like on his own
u shud talk 2 him . ask him how duz he feel on his own! if he says
good then thats just him if he says bad or along the lines of bad. thats ur chance to say that maybe he would feel better with you again
I LOVE mark's idea lol but I think you need to try and make him a bit jealous show him that life withou you is rubbish then accept his apology and take him back
Tell him your pregnant
tell him u still have feelings for him
1 - there will be no way he is shrugging you off pretty quickly, ater all you were a big big big part of his life for a very long time.
2 - i believe if you should be back together you will be, whetever happens, happens for a reason
3 - if he is going to come back to you, he will do, off his own accord, nothing will change his mind, only him. and do you really want to be with him knowing you made him come back? and he hasnt actually come back because thats what he really really wants?
4 - if you were to do anything to get him back they should be very subtle little things in order to make him think about you and think about what he is missing, but do not put him under pressure because men hate that. You could send him a text every once in a while, not often, once every 2 weeks or so, a short text like hey, hows you? you dont want to be goin all out and sending gifts to his house or anything soppy or OTT. Once you can see the friendship rekindling, be intouch more often, analyse how he acts with you. DONT bring up anything to do with the past or about relationships. that wont help if he has his mind stuck on not being with you.
you just need to show him that you are intersted in still being in touch, civilly and maturely about general stuff. ask him how works going or any problems you know hes had in the past, for example, if he had something bad going on at work a few days/weeks a go and you dont know if it sorted, just ask how things are at work now? and you hope he ok.
Whe things seem to progress (leave it a while though) ask if he fancies meeting for a coffee and a friendly chat.....
So basicaly let things start all over again as if you were first dating. This is the only way he will ever see what hes missing.
Either do that or totally 100% leave him alone.cos remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. play hard to get cos it ALWAYS works, no matter how long you have to play hard to get for. Dont contact him. He WILL worry and wonder why your not begging for him back and he will be scared your out of his life for good, then come running back. etc. DONT tell him youve been playing hard to get though.
I think you will be best off playing hard to get for a while till you can see some change, then send him the odd text or something. but dont reply to him straight away and dont reply everytime, you still need to play hard to get even when your back in touch.
Trust me he will worry. Wouldnt you???
Im shockingly heartbroken over him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. When i talk to him he seems like he is shrugging me off pretty well and it hurts to think he doesnt care.
What can i do to show him what he's missing? i cant live without him.How can i get my ex back?
here are a few simple suggestions to help you get back on track.
You find yourself hopelessly in love with him, but clearly do not want to lose your pride or allow him to get the best of you. Try playing a little bit ';hard to get'; for awhile. You want him to know that the loss was his and not your own.
If you think your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, keep the lines of communication open. Keep conversations, phone calls, etc. brief and to a minimum. You want to remind him how much he wants to be with you without overwhelming him and pushing him further away. Remember, he may want, and actually need more space.
If everything goes as planned, he will once again show interest in you and give you an opportunity to reminisce together. You will need to focus on all the good memories you shared, rather than the bad or negative experiences. Dwelling on the negative experiences will only stir up hurt feelings and work against you.
If you do not notice any response by your ex boyfriend to your gradual advances, pull back and re- assess the situation. It could be that he just isn't interested in a relationship with you right now, or maybe he really does need space. In that case, you should give it to him. If he does seem to be interested in your advances and is warming up to you again, then definitely continue to gradually rebuild your relationship.
If your ex is showing a definite desire to rebuild your relationship, it could be healthy to let him know how you feel and try opening your heart to him again. At all cost, avoid looking needy or desperate. However, if he just doesn't seem to be moving in the direction you had hoped, it would make more sense to take a step back and let things happen at a slower pace.How can i get my ex back?
The more you try to get him back the more he will move away from you.Give him time and let him decide what he wants next but when he makes his mind up u might not be available anymore. You know what he is loosing...but you cant force him to be with you now if he doesn't want to be.Why u want to get him back if he left u? Why would you buy a pink shirt if you don't like that colour? Get on with your life, change you hairdo, treat yourself, go out and wait if he comes back (there is a possibility that new man can appear.
There may have been something that caused him to want to see someone else. The relationship may have gotten boring. Or maybe you weren't adding value to the relationship.
There are a few things you can do to get him back. He loves you every bit as much as you love him. I know this because of the amount of time you two were together.
I read an article that will show you exactly what you should. I'll leave a link below for you to read.
I hope this helps...
If you were together for 8 years, I'm sure he still cares. Maybe he just needs a little time and space.
One way or the other, you need to put a plan together for getting your ex back. There are a lot of different ways you can go about it but I'd recommend reading the 7 Surefire Ways to Get Your Ex Back as a good starting point.
Please be patient and try to go out with your other friends. What will happen will happen. It could be that you going your own way will make him well and truly make up his mind. Please don't worry. Even though it is hard for you to see, you are a young person and if this does not work, there is some reason, some better life for you ahead.
Sometimes well i know from experience people end relationships because people change, is this the case with you ?
if so then think how you was 8 years ago if you want him bad enough and he does'nt like the way you are now then well stop changing and go for him !
think about the reasons y he broke up with you in this case he wants 2 see wat life is like on his own
u shud talk 2 him . ask him how duz he feel on his own! if he says
good then thats just him if he says bad or along the lines of bad. thats ur chance to say that maybe he would feel better with you again
I LOVE mark's idea lol but I think you need to try and make him a bit jealous show him that life withou you is rubbish then accept his apology and take him back
Tell him your pregnant
tell him u still have feelings for him
1 - there will be no way he is shrugging you off pretty quickly, ater all you were a big big big part of his life for a very long time.
2 - i believe if you should be back together you will be, whetever happens, happens for a reason
3 - if he is going to come back to you, he will do, off his own accord, nothing will change his mind, only him. and do you really want to be with him knowing you made him come back? and he hasnt actually come back because thats what he really really wants?
4 - if you were to do anything to get him back they should be very subtle little things in order to make him think about you and think about what he is missing, but do not put him under pressure because men hate that. You could send him a text every once in a while, not often, once every 2 weeks or so, a short text like hey, hows you? you dont want to be goin all out and sending gifts to his house or anything soppy or OTT. Once you can see the friendship rekindling, be intouch more often, analyse how he acts with you. DONT bring up anything to do with the past or about relationships. that wont help if he has his mind stuck on not being with you.
you just need to show him that you are intersted in still being in touch, civilly and maturely about general stuff. ask him how works going or any problems you know hes had in the past, for example, if he had something bad going on at work a few days/weeks a go and you dont know if it sorted, just ask how things are at work now? and you hope he ok.
Whe things seem to progress (leave it a while though) ask if he fancies meeting for a coffee and a friendly chat.....
So basicaly let things start all over again as if you were first dating. This is the only way he will ever see what hes missing.
Either do that or totally 100% leave him alone.cos remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. play hard to get cos it ALWAYS works, no matter how long you have to play hard to get for. Dont contact him. He WILL worry and wonder why your not begging for him back and he will be scared your out of his life for good, then come running back. etc. DONT tell him youve been playing hard to get though.
I think you will be best off playing hard to get for a while till you can see some change, then send him the odd text or something. but dont reply to him straight away and dont reply everytime, you still need to play hard to get even when your back in touch.
Trust me he will worry. Wouldnt you???
How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
I really miss her! %26amp; our relationship. Shes all I think about. We've gone out for 2 years, then she broke up with me. This all happened 1 year ago, and i haven't crushed on anybody since. Were great friends now, but i wanna take another step closer one more time. I just need some advice to impress her, or to make her come back into my arms.How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
don't be to pushy. Start talking to her as a friend. she might start to fall for you again. don't go to fast take it slow. it may take a while but at leat u will have a foot in the door. Good luck!How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
If you two have a good friendship established since the break-up the best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with her.
It's been over a year and she's the one who left you so the ball is in her court. Just let her know how you've been feeling and why you've been feeling this way.
Then, what ever happens, respect her answer. She may have a good reason for only being friends with you and it may not have as much to with you as you thought before.
First of all, your question is very vague: You did not say your age, and the reason your ex-gf broke up with you.
But here are some universal advices that will work with ANY girl:
1- Be interesting. Get a new (or old) hobby,and be super passionate about it. Girl's love passionate guys. =)
2- Start working out (if you don't already do so). Girls love ';muscle-y'; guys. We love to feel protected.
3- Be considerate and do ';little-thoughtfull-things'; for her: when she is sick in bed, buy her a fashion magazine and bring it to her; if she has an exam buy her a chocolate chip cookie (chocolate helps the brain, and even if it doesn't the fact that you remembered she had an exam is cute), if you know she really likes a type of candy (Skittles, M%26amp;Ms, Gum, etc) and you see it, buy it for her. Girls love little thoughtfull ';gifts';, more than expensive gifts.
4- Be smart. We love guys that are smart, but never be cocky (unless you do it as a joke) or condescendent.
5- JUST BE FUN TO BE AROUND. =)
Good Luck!!
the same happened to me buddy so i know how you feel, except im a girl.
anyways my boyfriend of three years won me back by bringing me flowers to my door and telling me this '; your everything i think about, i miss you, i cant stop wishing we could be like we were and i wish you would just give me one more chance to make things right.'; anyways ive been with him ever since.
BTW girls like roses lol i hope everything goes well for you and good luck
hope i helped :)
Well, first, try to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Was it you? Was she just ready to move on?
Once you've figured that out, just try talking to her. Don't mention it randomly- that might catch her off guard. Just casually mention that you'd like to talk to her after school or something.
Once you have her in a place where you can talk, just tell her how you feel. Don't pour your heart out, just tell her what you put here. Girls like it when a guy can talk about his feelings. Trust me.
If she says she needs time or she's not ready or she just isn't interested, don't get distressed. Continue being friends with her, but also look for someone new. Don't cling to her too much. Show her you're ready to move on.
But, then again, if it does work out, YES!
:) Hop I helped.
Hi Chris
You have to feel happy about that u find it that you love her.at list you know what she likes.
(1)now don't go back to her like that you want to get her back.she will feel awkward.So just try to be her friend go out for sometime.
(2) try to bring memory about your old time with her and see her reaction.what she feels about it. if she get emotional then you have chance don't tell her right there but wait till she back to her normal status
and she avoid it then you don't have to push it. just give her some time she will back to you.
(3) this is very critical moment so don't get angry or exited. keep you self calm and keep you mind active. and you will get a way i m sure.
god bless you. best of the luck. and please let the as all know when you get back her.
start by flirting with her a lot, try to get her attention.
then tell her how you feel about her.
if you guys were truly meant to be, then she will realize it.
if she doesn't, there's plenty of fish in the see...
and i know you probably hate that saying, i do too, but sometimes you have to let go of someone you really like and realize that the person you are meant to be with is walking on this earth right now, and you have to find them.
I know this might seem a little mean but you need to get out. Go dancing or take a trip outta town with your friends. Do something to get her off your mind. Try to get rid of stuff that reminds you of her. Try to keep busy to keep her off your mind: exercise or pick up a hobby! If you really can't get her off your mind, then do something nice... show her you really do care, buy her flowers or just send her something that is a inside joke between you too. (Don't PUSH IT! Don't leave 5 messages on her voice mail it's percieved as OBSESSIVENESS!) If none of this works, get out there and show her what she's missing =]
Ask her out on a date, but nothing to extreme, lunch. spend a lot of time with her as much as you can. if she speaks up first the tell her your feelings about her. girls really look up to that when guys tell them stuff the've been showing off forever. tell her you love her. just take step by step don't go for the player type with the hand over her shoulder coughing sheeme we HATE that. good luck. :)) your lover.
first of all you have to take a look at why you broke up in the first place. whatever it was wasn't bad enough that you couldn't stay friends, so i think you could give this a chance. come on to her real casual.. like throw in something like 'what do you think would happen if we started dating again?' and see what her reaction would be. if it seems like an iffy answer but leaning towards a good thing, or if she says i don't know, that's all a go for you to really ask her to be with you again.
girls love to be complimented.
tell her you seriously havn't like anyone as much as you've liked her and it's been awhile and you still want to try to be with her.. if she says no then that's ok.. atleast you put it out there.. but now you have to watch out because when a girl knows ur still into her she'll use that, whether intentional or not.. it's just an easy thing for a girl to do.
don't let her walk on you.
you sound really sweet and if she loved you before and loves you as a friend you asking her back out no matter what the response is a safe thing to do. but if she says no.. you gotta let it go. you'll just have to move on...
Do you normally go fishing around in the trash for a sandwich you threw out the day before? No?? Why not???
Dude im in the same boat as you bt a bit different since my ex gf has a new bf but you have to fix your broken heart no girl wants a guy thts desperate and cant get anyone else shes going to want they guy she 1st met not the one who is all broken hearted best of luck to you
There is really nothing you can do, it's up to her now. If you are best friends, that's a step in the right direction. Give her time, she may come back around.
Well idk y your not 2gether but if it was your fault you can kiss that girl good bye! other wise sing her a song or something
Umm...not trying to bring you down, but I don't think this girl wants a relationship with you. She has already said lets just be friends. If you don't leave it at that, you're not going to even be friends with her!
Let it go she left you for a reason and just wants to be friends obviously. Maybe if she sees you with another girl it might bring her back to you.
It's hard man, sometimes a girl is just not into a guy anymore. But if i was you I would act real cocky like I can get any girl I want LOL. Girls are sucker for cocky guys they can't say no to them.
leave her alone.. u broke up for reason..let her live her life..what's wit u people?
don't be to pushy. Start talking to her as a friend. she might start to fall for you again. don't go to fast take it slow. it may take a while but at leat u will have a foot in the door. Good luck!How can I get back my ex-girlfriend?
If you two have a good friendship established since the break-up the best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with her.
It's been over a year and she's the one who left you so the ball is in her court. Just let her know how you've been feeling and why you've been feeling this way.
Then, what ever happens, respect her answer. She may have a good reason for only being friends with you and it may not have as much to with you as you thought before.
First of all, your question is very vague: You did not say your age, and the reason your ex-gf broke up with you.
But here are some universal advices that will work with ANY girl:
1- Be interesting. Get a new (or old) hobby,and be super passionate about it. Girl's love passionate guys. =)
2- Start working out (if you don't already do so). Girls love ';muscle-y'; guys. We love to feel protected.
3- Be considerate and do ';little-thoughtfull-things'; for her: when she is sick in bed, buy her a fashion magazine and bring it to her; if she has an exam buy her a chocolate chip cookie (chocolate helps the brain, and even if it doesn't the fact that you remembered she had an exam is cute), if you know she really likes a type of candy (Skittles, M%26amp;Ms, Gum, etc) and you see it, buy it for her. Girls love little thoughtfull ';gifts';, more than expensive gifts.
4- Be smart. We love guys that are smart, but never be cocky (unless you do it as a joke) or condescendent.
5- JUST BE FUN TO BE AROUND. =)
Good Luck!!
the same happened to me buddy so i know how you feel, except im a girl.
anyways my boyfriend of three years won me back by bringing me flowers to my door and telling me this '; your everything i think about, i miss you, i cant stop wishing we could be like we were and i wish you would just give me one more chance to make things right.'; anyways ive been with him ever since.
BTW girls like roses lol i hope everything goes well for you and good luck
hope i helped :)
Well, first, try to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Was it you? Was she just ready to move on?
Once you've figured that out, just try talking to her. Don't mention it randomly- that might catch her off guard. Just casually mention that you'd like to talk to her after school or something.
Once you have her in a place where you can talk, just tell her how you feel. Don't pour your heart out, just tell her what you put here. Girls like it when a guy can talk about his feelings. Trust me.
If she says she needs time or she's not ready or she just isn't interested, don't get distressed. Continue being friends with her, but also look for someone new. Don't cling to her too much. Show her you're ready to move on.
But, then again, if it does work out, YES!
:) Hop I helped.
Hi Chris
You have to feel happy about that u find it that you love her.at list you know what she likes.
(1)now don't go back to her like that you want to get her back.she will feel awkward.So just try to be her friend go out for sometime.
(2) try to bring memory about your old time with her and see her reaction.what she feels about it. if she get emotional then you have chance don't tell her right there but wait till she back to her normal status
and she avoid it then you don't have to push it. just give her some time she will back to you.
(3) this is very critical moment so don't get angry or exited. keep you self calm and keep you mind active. and you will get a way i m sure.
god bless you. best of the luck. and please let the as all know when you get back her.
start by flirting with her a lot, try to get her attention.
then tell her how you feel about her.
if you guys were truly meant to be, then she will realize it.
if she doesn't, there's plenty of fish in the see...
and i know you probably hate that saying, i do too, but sometimes you have to let go of someone you really like and realize that the person you are meant to be with is walking on this earth right now, and you have to find them.
I know this might seem a little mean but you need to get out. Go dancing or take a trip outta town with your friends. Do something to get her off your mind. Try to get rid of stuff that reminds you of her. Try to keep busy to keep her off your mind: exercise or pick up a hobby! If you really can't get her off your mind, then do something nice... show her you really do care, buy her flowers or just send her something that is a inside joke between you too. (Don't PUSH IT! Don't leave 5 messages on her voice mail it's percieved as OBSESSIVENESS!) If none of this works, get out there and show her what she's missing =]
Ask her out on a date, but nothing to extreme, lunch. spend a lot of time with her as much as you can. if she speaks up first the tell her your feelings about her. girls really look up to that when guys tell them stuff the've been showing off forever. tell her you love her. just take step by step don't go for the player type with the hand over her shoulder coughing sheeme we HATE that. good luck. :)) your lover.
first of all you have to take a look at why you broke up in the first place. whatever it was wasn't bad enough that you couldn't stay friends, so i think you could give this a chance. come on to her real casual.. like throw in something like 'what do you think would happen if we started dating again?' and see what her reaction would be. if it seems like an iffy answer but leaning towards a good thing, or if she says i don't know, that's all a go for you to really ask her to be with you again.
girls love to be complimented.
tell her you seriously havn't like anyone as much as you've liked her and it's been awhile and you still want to try to be with her.. if she says no then that's ok.. atleast you put it out there.. but now you have to watch out because when a girl knows ur still into her she'll use that, whether intentional or not.. it's just an easy thing for a girl to do.
don't let her walk on you.
you sound really sweet and if she loved you before and loves you as a friend you asking her back out no matter what the response is a safe thing to do. but if she says no.. you gotta let it go. you'll just have to move on...
Do you normally go fishing around in the trash for a sandwich you threw out the day before? No?? Why not???
Dude im in the same boat as you bt a bit different since my ex gf has a new bf but you have to fix your broken heart no girl wants a guy thts desperate and cant get anyone else shes going to want they guy she 1st met not the one who is all broken hearted best of luck to you
There is really nothing you can do, it's up to her now. If you are best friends, that's a step in the right direction. Give her time, she may come back around.
Well idk y your not 2gether but if it was your fault you can kiss that girl good bye! other wise sing her a song or something
Umm...not trying to bring you down, but I don't think this girl wants a relationship with you. She has already said lets just be friends. If you don't leave it at that, you're not going to even be friends with her!
Let it go she left you for a reason and just wants to be friends obviously. Maybe if she sees you with another girl it might bring her back to you.
It's hard man, sometimes a girl is just not into a guy anymore. But if i was you I would act real cocky like I can get any girl I want LOL. Girls are sucker for cocky guys they can't say no to them.
leave her alone.. u broke up for reason..let her live her life..what's wit u people?
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